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[emrn]

I am really trying so hard to understand him. I'm really praying na hindi kami magpapadala sa mga
uncontrollable situations. Do you think I should just quit my current job?
As much as possible gusto ko na ma-lessen yung pinapagtalunan namin. I'm here sa office right now
but I really can't concentrate sa work. Hayy.. thanks sis...

Yes I know that feeling na u can only understand him to some extent na sana sya din sana mag understand pero maybe he just feels really sad and empty without u. About quiting ur job hmmmm are u sure u want that? Andito lang kami sis kaya mo yan

 

[Jovy]

Hi everyone!

Gano po kaya katagal bago magsend ang CEM ng AOR after magDM ang sponsor?
Hayyy... ang hirap nitong ordeal na pinapagdaanan natin.
I'm very sad that this processing has greatly affected me and my husband.
Ang dalas dalas namin mag-away ngayon kahit magkalayo.
Petty things, pinapagtalunan pa namin. Yung work ko pinapagselosan din nya.
Hindi ko na alam ang gagawin ko. Parang gusto ko na lang pumunta sa ibang country
at magtago. Super stressed out sa work, emotionally tired from every week's arguments...

Pasensya na po sa pagddrama ko, ang hirap hirap lang talaga.

Hi trizienne, i understand how u feel, lam mo isang tip lng ha, kame din kse dati ganyan, halos mag-away kami pag nsstress sa application, so we decided not to talk about it nlng while we're chatting, we decided na mag-antay patiently and it will come naman, so problem solved, we never away na from then on... kse ayaw nila ng mkulit, ako kase super kulit ako hehehe kaya ngayon eh lage ko kinakalma sarili ko lalo na at times na nrerealize ko na may dapat akp ayusin or kuhanin nadocuments na posible hingin during the processing, part nman siguro ng relationship ang misunderstandings pero make sure u settle everything before the day ends... i hope ul be fine soon... :-* cheer-up!!! sabi nga dito eh stress stress go away hehehe... have a great day! cheers make urself busy sis.... and always PRAY... muah! God Bless

 

[MLVill]

Thanks... I am really adjusting to being submissive. Pareho malakas yung personality namin eh.
Also, right now we are taking care of our own finances.. I mean we decided that we should save what we can
so I'm working right now para di na nya ko iisipin dito. We are just newlyweds, just got married last December.
And he had to go back March. This is painstakingly hard to accept that when we got married
saka kami nagkaron ng mga fights unlike before. I'm very sorry, excuse me for sharing personal matters
with you guys but just today, I can't take it anymore...

yes be submissive but we have some limitation din naman.
normal lang yan sis kasi mag asawa na kayo..try to be more patient and work it out.
di naman natin makikilala ang isang tao until makasama mo sya sa isang bubong.
being mag asawa kasi both of u have some weaknesses dun kayo matulungan to uplift eachother.
minsan kasi di natin ma accept na mali tayo ..pag aralan mo na tumanggap ng weaknesses mo.then u will be fine soon.
Nuon kasi ganyan ako akala ko laging tama ako pero natuto akong makinig at mag accept.
higit sa lahat mag pray ka for both of ur peace...

usually ang babae ang gumagawa ng effort to make our family strong..

 

[emrn]

Isa pa nga yan eh. Actually before we got married, we had a big fight about my work.
So I resigned. Eh nung pabalik na sya ng Canada, sabi nya sige daw magwork na ulit ako
para may mapaglibangan ako. I know I can tend to be workaholic but gusto ko lang
maging responsible sa mga tasks na ibinibigay sa kin. Kakaloka!!!!

About him not letting u go to work today dahil bagyo it's just him being protective kasi wala sya dito if ever something bad happens kaya ganun lang un. Kami din ni hubby pareho malakas personality kaya kapag nag-aaway kami wwIII talaga hahah but later on naging submissive na lang ako kasi kung pareho kaming nasa taas walang patutunguhan parati lang kami mag-aaway. Pero kung super major na yan ang nagiging dahilan ng pag-aaway nyo mag leave ka muna for a couple of days. And since wala kang ginagawa kung meron kang magic jack tawagan mo ng bongang-bonga or itext at i chat mo ng sobra as in kulitin mo tapos sabihin mo this will continue and might get worse if I'm bored. My job keeps me pre-occupied so sana u will understand. This is my way of coping. So what will it be should I quit my job or not??? hehehe at naging demonyo pa ako. Just trying to lighten things up... Smile sis look into the brighter side of things

 

[MLVill]

About him not letting u go to work today dahil bagyo it's just him being protective kasi wala sya dito if ever something bad happens kaya ganun lang un. Kami din ni hubby pareho malakas personality kaya kapag nag-aaway kami wwIII talaga hahah but later on naging submissive na lang ako kasi kung pareho kaming nasa taas walang patutunguhan parati lang kami mag-aaway. Pero kung super major na yan ang nagiging dahilan ng pag-aaway nyo mag leave ka muna for a couple of days. And since wala kang ginagawa kung meron kang magic jack tawagan mo ng bongang-bonga or itext at i chat mo ng sobra as in kulitin mo tapos sabihin mo this will continue and might get worse if I'm bored. My job keeps me pre-occupied so sana u will understand. This is my way of coping. So what will it be should I quit my job or not??? hehehe at naging demonyo pa ako. Just trying to lighten things up... Smile sis look into the brighter side of things

yeah sis tama ka .....kasi alam nyo ang tao parang batery para gumana dapat may negative at positive
kung same kayong positive ay di kayo aandar....
better talk in a nice way ,be calm, be malambing then kung sinabi nyang yes quit ur job then go ka sis...
alam mo bakit?kasi naka isa na sya sayo nag quit ka then next time may laban kana na pinagbigyan mo na sya before so sunod winnie the pooh kana sister....its a matter of give n take lang yan sis...mag ipon ka muna bala then next time sya naman bawian mo hehehhehehhehe....ganun lang yun then u n him will be fine....

 

[MLVill]

sis ang carrer nandyan lang yan sa tabi tabi ang ganda ng career mo sister so anytime pag ok na sya at dun kana then go a head.
but family will always be family sacrifice muna sis for him.....

 

[Duday]

Quote from: pop_princess on July 26, 2011, 11:19:44 pm
Thank God tapos na rin paghihintay ko ng visa.pinapick up ng DHL sa mother ko ang visa package.pmunta ako sa canadian embassy knnang umaga,pnapasok nman ako at un binigay nla ang tracking # sa akin dhil khapon lang nla na sent out.tnawagan ko agad ang DHL.sobrang saya ko..hnd ko maipaliwanag ang nrradaman ko sa sobrang tuwa.after ng lahat ng sacrfices at paghihintay naging pasitive nman ang decisyon...


Galing Pop_Princess! Congratulations! ;D
Anong sinabi mo sa guard para papasukin ka?
Anong oras ka pumunta sa CEM?
thanks for sharing
Sana dumating narin ang mga Visa namin at mga DM ng lahat
God bless

 

[pop_princess]

Quote from: pop_princess on July 26, 2011, 11:19:44 pm
Thank God tapos na rin paghihintay ko ng visa.pinapick up ng DHL sa mother ko ang visa package.pmunta ako sa canadian embassy knnang umaga,pnapasok nman ako at un binigay nla ang tracking # sa akin dhil khapon lang nla na sent out.tnawagan ko agad ang DHL.sobrang saya ko..hnd ko maipaliwanag ang nrradaman ko sa sobrang tuwa.after ng lahat ng sacrfices at paghihintay naging pasitive nman ang decisyon...


Galing Pop_Princess! Congratulations! ;D
Anong sinabi mo sa guard para papasukin ka?
Anong oras ka pumunta sa CEM?
thanks for sharing
Sana dumating narin ang mga Visa namin at mga DM ng lahat
God bless

Hello Sis Duday! Naku ang higpit dun sa guard sa lobby pa lng daming tinanong, pumunta ako dun mga 9am. Pero pinaakyat naman ako cguro good mood! ;DHahahaha! Pag akyat ko sa 6th floor andaming police at military!! sabi ko anong meron?! Hahahaha! ;D pero for security purposes cguro. Pagpasok mo naman me maliit na locker dun kung saan dun mo iddeposit ang mga gadgets mo. Sobrang higpit din sa scanning, ulitimo headset kelangan ideposit! ;D
Meron ka form na ffill outan, tapos kuha ka ng number at wait ka tawagin. Nung tinawag ako pinaupo ulet ako sabi check daw nila papers ko, pag tawag saken ulet binigay na yung tracking number ng DHL! ;D hahaha! Andun na pala samem! Kaloka!! Mas nauna pa saken, mama ko nag receive at 95.00pesos yung binayad namin sa DHL. ;D
Yan lang po ang aking nakakatawa pero memorable experience sa CEM. ;D ;D

 

[HYA]

helo po, i'm from alberta. balak ko magsponsor january next year. Ikakasal kami this december kasi. tanung ko kung anung unang gawin pagdating pilipinas. uwi ako ngayung september hanggang january. Magkanu pala showmoney sa pagsponsor ng spouse?..

of what I know hindi kailangan ng show money if u will sponsor a spouse, but u need yata to give them a copy of ur tax return. ireresearch what u need about getting married here. Citizen ka na ba? parang meron akong nabasa before that u need a clearance or a letter from Canada or the embassy na pwede ka magpakasal, I'm just not sure i will look for that thread and i will tell u as soon as possible.

Hi i would like to add something, if you are a Canadian Citizen and planning to get married here in the Philippines, you are required to get your (Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage) u may request for this form at the Canadian Embassy Manila,,if im not mistaken its around 2000-2500 pesos, just present your passport, to make sure u may call the embassy regarding the things u need to bring upon request of the certificate.

Godbless

 

[hanis]

papamedical po kme next week. Question lng po. Napansin ko lng sa medical form na may nakalagay kung San visa office will process your file. Ano pong nilagay nyo dun? Kc ung papers nmin, asawa ko nagpa-process e.

At nabasa ko lng po ba pag sa NATIONWiDe health systems 2 weeks after the medical mo pa makukuha ung copy 2 at sa sCTs naman, on d day? Tama po ba un?

 

[raniloc]

@Pop_princess -- talagang mahigpit sa CEM.. ultimo sinturon ko pinatanggal nila bago pumasok sa scanning door.. tapos yung bag na dala ko pinadaan sa xray machine.. yung cell phone, car key and any electronic gadget pinaiwan sa maliit na locker transparent made of glass.. yung susi ng locker dala ko..

Kaso wala rin kaming napala sa CEM.. kasi nung tinawag na yung number namin... di naman kami binagyan ng information ng receptionist kung ginalaw na nila yung application namin or naka pila pa rin sa files.. sabi sa amin.. for review pa daw at di pa lagpas sa processing time na 6months.. :'( :'( :'( :'(

Pero atleast... naka tungtong ako sa loob ng CEM... (palubag loob..)

 

[pop_princess]

@ Pop_princess -- talagang mahigpit sa CEM.. ultimo sinturon ko pinatanggal nila bago pumasok sa scanning door.. tapos yung bag na dala ko pinadaan sa xray machine.. yung cell phone, car key and any electronic gadget pinaiwan sa maliit na locker transparent made of glass.. yung susi ng locker dala ko..

Kaso wala rin kaming napala sa CEM.. kasi nung tinawag na yung number namin... di naman kami binagyan ng information ng receptionist kung ginalaw na nila yung application namin or naka pila pa rin sa files.. sabi sa amin.. for review pa daw at di pa lagpas sa processing time na 6months.. :'( :'( :'( :'(

Pero atleast... naka tungtong ako sa loob ng CEM... (palubag loob..)

Hahahaha! Oo nga eh! ;D hubad ko din ung belt ko. Pati shoes ko sinilip. Pero un nga wala din masyado sinabi about sa application ko kung ano decision. Basta ang sabi nung girl dun sa booth naipadala na daw yung package kahapon pa! Toinks! mas nauna pa saken sa bahay! Nakaka2wa n makapasok dun sa CEM!
;D ;D hindi na magtatagal anjan na rin ang visa nyo sis! Magugulat ka nalang, hehehe!

 

[emrn]

sis ang carrer nandyan lang yan sa tabi tabi ang ganda ng career mo sister so anytime pag ok na sya at dun kana then go a head.
but family will always be family sacrifice muna sis for him.....

Actually sis meron point si MLViII family first muna ur career will always be there since ur a workaholic and ur really goal driven there is no doubt that u can just pick off where u left and u will still be successful as of now if ur career is putting much stress in ur marriage. Just let him have his way. Since bagong kasal palang kayo natural yang mga away kasi ur still adjusting to each other's behavior. And what's make it more difficult is that magkalayo pa kayo. Kami nga ni hubby halos everynight umiiyak sa skype and magic jack. hehehe Pero as of now we just have to pray and keep the faith.

 

[miga-quatchi]

papamedical po kme next week. Question lng po. Napansin ko lng sa medical form na may nakalagay kung San visa office will process your file. Ano pong nilagay nyo dun? Kc ung papers nmin, asawa ko nagpa-process e.

At nabasa ko lng po ba pag sa NATIONWiDe health systems 2 weeks after the medical mo pa makukuha ung copy 2 at sa sCTs naman, on d day? Tama po ba un?

MANILA po ilagay niyo sa Visa Office kung outbound po application niyo (meaning CEM ang magpaprocess ng PR application mo)...
Re: Medical Receipt Copy 2, ang timeline na yan ay base sa experience/feedback ng mga waiting applicants...
sa SCTS ako nagpamedical..

 

[miga-quatchi]

sana makapasok din ako ng CEM bago makarating ng Canada hehehe ;D ;D ;D

i wanna experience the excitement and thrill that the CEM environment brings hehe