Ravi Ryder said:
thanks for your prayers i nedd that rite now i cant belive i been used so many ppl warn me about this girl my own family i never listen i just followed my heart and loved and care for her and her daughter i did every thing since i marry her since may 16 2014 she has never worked a day i take care her do everything we even had interview in tnt officer told me they rcvd a letter from perso saying our marriage was not real and she was just using to go canada i provided so much documents to prove our love was real and spend so much money with this women are waste she is a mother who has a girl child how can she send naked pic of her self over skype wat if that person post it to fb and her daughter see women dont think these days they dont know what they want you give them everything they not happy still i should just revoke them send them back cause if i dont am responsible for her for 36 months and 10 years for her dauther which means if i dont revoke i wont be able to undertake and sponsor this is so scew up thank god government bring new rules that we have live together for 2 years and they give them new conditonal pr not full idk am really thinking just to call cic and cbsa and report them and have them reoke and ordered to leave canada and baneed from coming back and to all have canada goverment tell us immgarion about her so she dont do this to anyone else please helps guys am really hurt i feel if i keep waiting it will be worst and it better i report rite away only thing i dont want report now and then she decide to come back to me and want start over idk what to do at this time she says we done and loves some else she hates me she not happy with me and never will be and does not care
Hey Ravi,
So so sorry to hear about what happened to you. It's sad to see what people are willing to do just to come over here. After all you did for her and her child, for her to hurt you like that is wrong. Of course the decision is yours as to what you want to do and you don't want to do anything that you would regret in the future. Here are a couple of things to think about though
1. What she did was against the law and is considered fraud.
2. You're not responsible for her child's well being, she is.
3. There are so many genuine people in Guyana who would dream of coming here, which would never be a reality for them.
4. She doesn't deserve you. She used you to come here. Even if she did come back, why would you take her back?
I think the best thing for you to do is think really hard about it. Pray about it... Don't do it out of revenge... do it because what she did wasn't right. In my opinion, sooner is better.... But like I said, it's your decision. My prayers are with you. At the very very least though is you should try to get a divorce as soon as possible, even if you don't call CIC right away.
