1272 and Anuaru,
To be honest, i dont know much about both of you, but i saw recent posts and noticed the conflict between u two.
Here is how i see what happened (Caution : Explanation is full of masala and cheesy comments. No Harm Intended)
1272 is a regular member here and is very friendly. I see her helping others very often. Not only they talk here in this forum, but also have whatsapp group so that they can stay in touch forever. I believe that group is female only (Trust me, i asked for group name so many times, but no reply
). When she PM you, she thought of you as a friend and not just a forum member. if you were a male member, she would have just replied in the thread. So basically this is your answer for " why she PM you" . Now lets talk about what "scaring other" part.
There is a saying " Words are sharper than swords ". Sometimes even though your intentions are good, but choosing wrong words could send wrong message to the listener or reader. When you posted your question, 1272 jumped on it to help you but it seems you felt that she came very hard on you. And to be honest, i don't blame you. we all are desperately waiting for our loved ones . If first thing you hear is " oh your visa will be delayed " , obviously you want to hate that person.
Anuaru, i am not sure how you filed your application, but i did it my self (If tonight i am able to convey my message with this long post, that mean long essay i wrote in my file is complete success
) . Anyways, only way i get any updates about what is going on in delhi office is either through official website or this forum. If you are in same boat as me, i would highly recommend you to stick around here.
If you have any questions, you can always ask around. Dont worry, no one is ganging up on you or something like that.
Guys, We are all going through emotional atayachar. Please be gentle with each other. Minor things can feels like huge when your mind is somewhere else.
Note: There are slight chances that i could be completely wrong
