NEW DELHI - 2013 APPLICANTS.

[moonlight93]

IS there any june applicant who are still waiting their visa or it is just me almost 2 months after re-medical and still in-process so frustrating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[neha_anticevic]

Strongly agree with u... We didn't have a big fat wedding as we knew parents can't come... We were planning to have a reception once my husband would get a visa. As u said majority of the fake marriages have parents involved in it... I think people in NDVO work mostly on indian ethics and stuff... That's why they see a file with lors of wedding pictures with relatives and parents.. They r convinced... Sometimes I wonder does providing 5 year old proofs mean nothing in front of just a little situation that parents were not present? Why can't they see old pictures together? Big old emails? Gifts and all... Everyday is getting more and more frustrating...

That may be true but i want to tell about us. In our case we too had a small wedding with a small reception, nothing fancy at all with just 35 people in total,, my parents, my best friends and 2 family relatives...that's it, My husband'd parents couldn't make it due to you know long distance and money issues.. But I didnt get any interview and my status changed to IN Process just recently after 9 months of application filed..

 

[neha2515]

That may be true but i want to tell about us. In our case we too had a small wedding with a small reception, nothing fancy at all with just 35 people in total,, my parents, my best friends and 2 family relatives...that's it, My husband'd parents couldn't make it due to you know long distance and money issues.. But I didnt get any interview and my status changed to IN Process just recently after 9 months of application filed..

hey Neha, would you mind sharing how long do you guys know each other before marriage and how much time did you spend together after marriage, honeymoon etc, just wanted to get an idea about weak/strong points I mean how NDVO concluded your relation.

 

[neha_anticevic]

hey Neha, would you mind sharing how long do you guys know each other before marriage and how much time did you spend together after marriage, honeymoon etc, just wanted to get an idea about weak/strong points I mean how NDVO concluded your relation.

Sure, We met online on June 2011, it started on from there..I mean knowing each other ..falling in love and then deciding to get married. He came to see me for the first time to India in Sep 2012 for 2 weeks and we got formally engaged too then. Next he came to visit me and get married to me in March 2013 and this time he stayed with me for 5 weeks.. We didn't have a proper honeymoon coz Pedro got sick because of hot weather in India so we stayed most of the time during his second visit in Nainital with my parents in my house..but yes we did take a trip together to Agra in his first visit and to Chennai for my niece's first birthday in his second visit.. We didnt give any hotel bills, restaurant bills, coz we didnt know we had to.. we always threw them away so the only proof we provided were 500 pictures, 100 emails, 100 pages of bbm chats, screen shots of video chats, facebook summary of our relationship and yes letters from his parents and mine stating that they know about us and are happy for us and our relationship, we got this letter attested by a lawyer too..Hope this helps

 

[neha2515]

Sure, We met online on June 2011, it started on from there..I mean knowing each other ..falling in love and then deciding to get married. He came to see me for the first time to India in Sep 2012 for 2 weeks and we got formally engaged too then. Next he came to visit me and get married to me in March 2013 and this time he stayed with me for 5 weeks.. We didn't have a proper honeymoon coz Pedro got sick because of hot weather in India so we stayed most of the time during his second visit in Nainital with my parents in my house..but yes we did take a trip together to Agra in his first visit and to Chennai for my niece's first birthday in his second visit.. We didnt give any hotel bills, restaurant bills, coz we didnt know we had to.. we always threw them away so the only proof we provided were 500 pictures, 100 emails, 100 pages of bbm chats, screen shots of video chats, facebook summary of our relationship and yes letters from his parents and mine stating that they know about us and are happy for us and our relationship, we got this letter attested by a lawyer too..Hope this helps

woww neha, wat a nice love story, I am sure visa officer must have been convinced at very first instance and infact I feel good that they gave importance to love and relationship and not just rituals n crowd, btw I never heard about this kind of letters but sounds like a good idea for new applicants.
I wish you get your visa asap.
God bless you guys

 

[neha_anticevic]

woww neha, wat a nice love story, I am sure visa officer must have been convinced at very first instance and infact I feel good that they gave importance to love and relationship and not just rituals n crowd, btw I never heard about this kind of letters but sounds like a good idea for new applicants.
I wish you get your visa asap.
God bless you guys

Thank you dear.. even we didn't know bout dese letters.. it was told by my mother in law.. so we thought why not use this idea.. she said it helped one of her friend's son to get his wife soon.. What is ur status as of now?

 

[Bittudi90]

DO anybody know how this relationship works?
Bcz i and my wife had secret marriage and dint tell our familes.
Her parents was not ready for this. And after all family dicussion my family oppose us too. i know my wife from like 8 years and we went school together. Been in real relation for 4 years and i really didnt had much proof of our relation. All i had was old email and couple pics when i went india firrt time in 2013. I do have my wife's pictures with my mom and my sister in law and sister. Does this mean i m on red flag?
Can any one suggest?
I sent my secret mrg pics and explained everything about our relation too.
Please some body help.

 

[funnyguy86]

Can be a red flag. Hope for the best.. play for the worst

DO anybody know how this relationship works?
Bcz i and my wife had secret marriage and dint tell our familes.
Her parents was not ready for this. And after all family dicussion my family oppose us too. i know my wife from like 8 years and we went school together. Been in real relation for 4 years and i really didnt had much proof of our relation. All i had was old email and couple pics when i went india firrt time in 2013. I do have my wife's pictures with my mom and my sister in law and sister. Does this mean i m on red flag?
Can any one suggest?
I sent my secret mrg pics and explained everything about our relation too.
Please some body help.

 

[neha_anticevic]

DO anybody know how this relationship works?
Bcz i and my wife had secret marriage and dint tell our familes.
Her parents was not ready for this. And after all family dicussion my family oppose us too. i know my wife from like 8 years and we went school together. Been in real relation for 4 years and i really didnt had much proof of our relation. All i had was old email and couple pics when i went india firrt time in 2013. I do have my wife's pictures with my mom and my sister in law and sister. Does this mean i m on red flag?
Can any one suggest?
I sent my secret mrg pics and explained everything about our relation too.
Please some body help.

It could be a red flag.. but if see at the positive side since you have explained everything well may be they would understand your situation though this is slightly doubtful.. Hope everything turns out good for you

 

[moonlight93]

IS there any june applicant who are still waiting their visa or it is just me almost 2 months after re-medical and still in-process so frustrating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[fakename]

Just to let other October 2013 applicants know I got an ADR today, so NDVO is still working on October files.
My case will be on hold till they open it again (in about six weeks I am guessing as other ADRs).

Most of October applicants should expect at least IP in next 10 days.

 

[neha2515]

Thank you dear.. even we didn't know bout dese letters.. it was told by my mother in law.. so we thought why not use this idea.. she said it helped one of her friend's son to get his wife soon.. What is ur status as of now?

my status is complicated, as of now they haven't contacted me and infact ignoring me and our all plans have been shattered, I have accepted the fact that I am a mercy case because of a simple marriage, though we spent like 2 years together both are engineers working with world known companies.... last month we were looking for a house to buy in Canada and this week we are looking for a job in some other country and planning to quit Canada. What an uncertain system.

 

[sak7]

does any one know if interview is still a possibility after recieving IP?

 

[fakename]

my status is complicated, as of now they haven't contacted me and infact ignoring me and our all plans have been shattered, I have accepted the fact that I am a mercy case because of a simple marriage, though we spent like 2 years together both are engineers working with world known companies.... last month we were looking for a house to buy in Canada and this week we are looking for a job in some other country and planning to quit Canada. What an uncertain system.

Hello Neha,
A lot of October cases haven't been dealt with yet, but it seems that NDVO is working faster these days.
I am sure that rest of October applicants who didn't get any update yet will hear from them soon.

 

[fakename]

does any one know if interview is still a possibility after recieving IP?

Looking at historical data, it's not and let's hope that NDVO won't make your case an exception