rani2728 said:
tired...really it is very confusing and exhausting...yest was my marraige anniversary and even after one year i m walking alone. still 57 days to go and u dont know still how many more days/months they may keep u on hold...losing faith in process and god. i know it is depressing but it is difficult now..
Happy belated wedding anniversary
It is unfortunate that you had to spend it alone but you are not the only one. There are a lot of people on the forum who have missed celebrating anniversaries, birthdays and even the birth of their first child
It may also be nerve-wracking for you about the interview and how to manage by yourself.
But we are like your family and your best friends here and we will undoubtedly help you along with anything. We are all in the same boat and we can all understand what you are going through.
It really helps letting out all of your frustrations and telling them to someone who can understand.
The most important thing is never give up or let your spirits down. Think of this as a test that will only make you stronger, and your marriage stronger.
And once you are with your husband, which will be soon, there will be no distances, walls, boundaries, forces... that will keep you apart.
So enjoy the time you have with your family right now, while you are in India. Canada will be different from India, so take the time to do all the fun things that you may mot be able to do in Canada once you are there.
And Cheer Up
NDVO officers have miserable lives and they want to inflict the same onto us... so don't let them win. Once this whole process is done, you can move forward and always remember this ordeal as another obstacle that you had to break or jump over in order to strengthen yourself in many ways.
Best of Luck with everything
And remember, we are always here if you ever feel down
