I am posting here for the first time…I seek your help brothers and sisters in this great and mature place.
I am PhD holder and I am the main applicant of immigration to Canada. My husband is jobless since the recession period, we have one son who is 8yrs now, and we are involved in “unstable & unhealthy” marriage since he lost his job. Both of us agree on stay together for the sake of our son.
Recently I discovered that my husband is dating (online) a Canadian lady who is originally from his nationality, I read the chat who he left opened unintentionally (otherwise I will not know!) and he was promising her he will divorce me and come and ask her hand the next day he land in Canada.
This conversation was very hard and tough on me as women, I am really working hard now like a man to bring the bread to the family, I was in tears, I cried and cried and cried, despite the fact that we are not happy family, but I thought that he might get changed when we land in Canada and start looking for job. But I discovered I am idiot!
If I asked for divorce, he will take my son from me who loved him so much…my family will not support me in my decision (family and culture complications)
Can you help what can I do to cancel his application without he knows? We are waiting for MR and we are in process since 12 Jan 2012 from LVO.
Please no rude replies or comments...I need help!
Thanks
I am PhD holder and I am the main applicant of immigration to Canada. My husband is jobless since the recession period, we have one son who is 8yrs now, and we are involved in “unstable & unhealthy” marriage since he lost his job. Both of us agree on stay together for the sake of our son.
Recently I discovered that my husband is dating (online) a Canadian lady who is originally from his nationality, I read the chat who he left opened unintentionally (otherwise I will not know!) and he was promising her he will divorce me and come and ask her hand the next day he land in Canada.
This conversation was very hard and tough on me as women, I am really working hard now like a man to bring the bread to the family, I was in tears, I cried and cried and cried, despite the fact that we are not happy family, but I thought that he might get changed when we land in Canada and start looking for job. But I discovered I am idiot!
If I asked for divorce, he will take my son from me who loved him so much…my family will not support me in my decision (family and culture complications)
Can you help what can I do to cancel his application without he knows? We are waiting for MR and we are in process since 12 Jan 2012 from LVO.
Please no rude replies or comments...I need help!
Thanks