not in the same situation, but New Delhi forms recently underwent a small change and they have added the following section in tworf Experience docs.
"If you have experience as a self-employed person, provide copies of:
• business/company registration documents,
• proof of business conducted with clients (invoices, bills, client references)
• balance sheets,
• income tax returns, and/or
• proof of your licence to practice (if you are a private practitioner)"
so, you may be able to give it a shot...
there was a lady n the forum - charmeuse... she was in a similar situation. Her husband was the owner and she was a director. She tried to prove that she was an employee and did not pave much heat to 0213 while making final docs. She was rejected.
she doesn't come on the forum any more. But, you can still check her past posts...
But, since then this new change has come in and maybe you can apply if you show yourself as self-employed...