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I hope it goes well for you too Patricksgirls. I would really recommend the Peace Bridge or Rainbow if you go that way.
 
I am considering those two crossings also. It seems they are more understanding there than at other ones. I read on the road forum today about a man calling Emerson and supposedly the IO's there were all about letting spouses be with their Canadian partners but that is where I had my horrifying ordeal. Who knows...