HELP!!! My wife misrepresented herself to a visa officer during interview.....

[ohwiffy]

I love Aussie and will always be welcomed there. IMO there's no place like Gold Coast, Queensland on earth.....If my wife's application is turned down by Canada, we will migrate to Aussie. I am a Pediatrician and won't have any problems at all applying for Oz PR or getting a job there, but this time, ofcourse, we will tell the truth and it will indeed set us free.

Sorry for my earlier mail Lynw, but a lot of people on this forum are not liking your answers. Try giving more diplomatic and politically correct answers and we'll all luv u like we luv the Aussies....

 

[Black-Berry]

Your wifes boss raped your wife several times and threatened to kill her?!?!?!?!?!?!?! and then he went ahead and filed a complaint??. something IS wrong!!..

 

[ohwiffy]

Irony of life in the Middle East. In fact we thinking of writing a book on her ordeal. Just keep watching Oprah, and you may see our book being endorsed by her in the future.

 

[Black-Berry]

Did your wife actually tell you that?

 

[ohwiffy]

yap....

 

[Yaya Marei]

Irony of life in the Middle East. In fact we thinking of writing a book on her ordeal. Just keep watching Oprah, and you may see our book being endorsed by her in the future.

HuhUH Everyone want to be fomuse he write bad thing about middle East, the short way : Man stop this thing, you wife made things or not is not our business, you asked for advice and we give it to you.

 

[ohwiffy]

I have NOT condenmed anyone in the Middle East. Some of my close friends are Iranian and Turks. Its unfortunate my wife's boss behave this way, but its no way a reflection of men of the Middle East.

 

[Black-Berry]

Ok first and foremost why are you so proud that your wife was raped several times and even want to write a book about it and go on Oprah?. I actually know someone whose girlfriend was raped just once and he would never go to a site and brag about it!.. Leave alone brag about writing a book about it!!. This story just sounds so wrong in my opinion!!. Either your wife lied to you or you are the one lyeing.

Why are you proudly stating here that your wife was raped several times by her ex boss. No one will ever believe your case leave alone the Canadian Officials. it just sounds like bull to me..

 

[lynw]

I love Aussie and will always be welcomed there. IMO there's no place like Gold Coast, Queensland on earth.....If my wife's application is turned down by Canada, we will migrate to Aussie. I am a Pediatrician and won't have any problems at all applying for Oz PR or getting a job there, but this time, ofcourse, we will tell the truth and it will indeed set us free.

Sorry for my earlier mail Lynw, but a lot of people on this forum are not liking your answers. Try giving more diplomatic and politically correct answers and we'll all luv u like we luv the Aussies....

You won't be welcome there with a criminal record, nor with a history of immigration fraud. Double no-no.

And - ugh - I don't want your "luv" thanks.

 

[Yaya Marei]

I have NOT condenmed anyone in the Middle East. Some of my close friends are Iranian and Turks. Its unfortunate my wife's boss behave this way, but its no way a reflection of men of the Middle East.

My friend , allow me to call you my friend, there is so such things like this anymore, I think I got the picture over here,
Your wife has trouble, her ex- boss done bad ( sexial) and she never went to police but she run a way, her ex-boss go to the police and complain about I donot know. does this sounds good for you .
but do you really believe it,or just want to believe in it,

My friend all people here educated, most of them live in many countries and they know your story unbelieveable, and there a lot of lie.

you want to be in Opra , good for you, but you know my friend I hear Opera done from her show , to bad for you. ;D

 

[Black-Berry]

And how can her ex- boss rape her several times!. after the first rape she should not have gone back to her job if she hated the rape so much!!. But noooo after he first raped her she shouldnt have gone back!. Sounds to me like she enjoyed this err "rape" and came and lied to you that she was raped!.. And why did she flee if she was raped?. she should have reported it anyhow then left!!...

 

[plumosa]

And how can her ex- boss rape her several times!. after the first rape she should not have gone back to her job if she hated the rape so much!!. But noooo after he first raped her she shouldnt have gone back!. Sounds to me like she enjoyed this err "rape" and came and lied to you that she was raped!.. And why did she flee if she was raped?. she should have reported it anyhow then left!!...

I think this guy is probably a troll but even if this story is true, you shouldn't be blaming the victim. You're demeaning her and every other person that's been raped. Most women never report being raped because people like you that say 'she must have enjoyed it'

:/

 

[kelKel]

I agree Plumosa. The story sounds extremely far fetched but in the chance it is true noone knows the victims true feelings or the exact circumstances she faced.

 

[Black-Berry]

I think this guy is probably a troll but even if this story is true, you shouldn't be blaming the victim. You're demeaning her and every other person that's been raped. Most women never report being raped because people like you that say 'she must have enjoyed it'

:/

And am not looking or demeaning anyone. All am saying and my point is.. this story sounds like bull.
I did not mean to blame or demaean the victim. (Look now where you are going with this!) I am just being sarcastic with this.
Also i have notice that wording is very important in this place. Words can easily be mis construed. The victim is not here. This person is talking about writing a book about the multiple rape of his wife and going to oprah with it!. How disgusted am i??. I am not demeaning every rape victim and you dont know me and i am not like that in any way for you to say "people like me"!.

maybe before you "labelled" me you should have sent me a message and asked me what i meant..

 

[kelKel]

I understand where you are coming from BB. The fact the OP has come on here and told this very fragile story regardless if its true or not is wrong, no doubt.