clim2009 said:Re: Applying now...
1) I just changed jobs as of January of this year. I wonder how CIC will look at that... I'm just starting a job and it pays about $25k a year. I'm NOT on welfare or receiving govt assistance. And I have about $15k in savings. And I understand theres no income requirement for spousal sponsorship and all they look at is that she wont be on welfare.
2) Applying for a common law relationship from what I understand is more difficult to prove. I met this girl online. We have talked alot on skype and instant messaging. Since October of 2011. I haven't met this girl in person yet. And I looked at the forms it needs an attached marriage certificate. To prove common law relationship... I have all the skype logs and instant messaging logs saved... would that be enough?
I swear... 80-90% of the time Im not at work I am talking to her. And even when I'm at work I would try my best to communicate with her via txt messages. And it has been like that since 2011. Its already 2013 and the love we have for each other has only grown.
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And another question about getting through canadian border... I just phoned canada border and I asked em if seeing a wedding dress in her possession would raise a red flag. They said "YES". And she might be denied at the border because of the following 2 reasons:
1) lack of proof of ties to USA (she lives with her parents and no school no job.)
2) lack of financial capability to support herself for 6 months (6 months is the planned stay and she has $500 in the bank).
So I dunno... I am scared she will be denied at the border. And I'm really getting anxious and stressed out over this. Because I love her and I wanna spend the rest of my life with her. The love we have for each other is genuine and everyone can see it. Her parents, my parents, and the pastor whom we have had marriage counselling (via skype... pastor licensed to sign marriage certificate in ONTARIO, CANADA) with.
This is frustrating.
To qualify as common-law, you need to have lived together for one year. If you've never actually met, then you don't qualify for common-law status and can't apply. I would also guess that even once you're married, it will be a difficult application because you will have only known her (in person) for a short time, regardless of a marriage certificate. That is the type of situation they look very hard at. As for crossing the border, there is a good chance she will not be let through. No ties to USA, no money, only just met in person and you're getting married; again, that is the type of situation they look very hard at. They are probably not going to believe that she would leave a few months after the wedding. If you lie when you try to cross the border and then they find the wedding dress, she would be denied entry and that would later affect any PR application. Sorry it's not better news