Family Abuse

[vickey GILL]

Question: Sir, I was immigrant to Canada 1 year before. My wife had sponsored me. We got a baby now also.Now situations become tense. My inlaw family had some issues with my family. From beginning my inlaw family started torturing me. They forbade me to call my parents and my family as well. They directly said forget your parents now as the cannot come here. They started shouting at me And yelling at me, Intimidate me. They seized all my documents my passport. Now my pr card is sent in October. But they said to me we did not get it yet. They indirectly threaten me that in Canada lots of killing happen and cadavers are thrown in forest. Even police cannot find the person. They totally morally degrade me. They often said that we will take money for our nex daughters marriage from boys family. My mother in law and father in law used abusive language for me . They are also taking certain some of my money I don’t have enough savings yet. Commenting on my family and me is common. They try to intimidate me that they can deport me. I have discussed with my wife also but she listen to them more than me. She neve speak against them. But I love my wife and my son. I want to live with my wife and son,I want to stop my in laws interference. I also work with my inlaw, they also torture me there, don’t let me talk to others. Always lurking on me angrily. I have not tell this to my parents as I don’t want to give them tension. Q1: Do my wife can deport me ? Q2: Do she take my son away from me? Q3:They are living from a long time , they are saying that they know the law better So they can do anything. Q4: what should I do? I am just taking an advice, have not filed any complaint yet. I’ll appreciate your advise. Thank you.

 

[Buletruck]

1. No, she can’t deport you! Only the government can do that.
2. That would be up to a court to decide. And she can’t remove the child from Canada without your permission.
3. Nope. They are just intimidating you.
4. There are councilling services available. You should talk to them. Also document conversations, txt, email and phone calls. Arrange to have your documents replaced. Report it to the police (up to you if you tell them they are keeping your documents from you. The police will get them back). You could arrange a P.O. box to recieve them.

Currently, based on what you have said, your in laws are breaking the le, and it has very serious repercussions for them if it’s true. Best to make the situation known to the police.

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/fv-vf/help-aide.html

 

[OP_POP]

Man up and defend your rights, call the cops and report them and get them arrested.