CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2012 -2013

[jerry84]

AOA,

Question for 2012 Jan/Feb/March applicants,

My case,
Applied: Jan 2012
File Transferred: Apr 2012
Online status: Decision made, file transferred
Medical Expired: Oct 2012

No further communication...

I visited Dubai last month where my wife joined me from pak so I have sent updates to CIC with all the proofs but I am wondering Did any one hear back from CIC who applied in Jan/Feb/Mar 2012 time.

Your best bet is to order GCMS notes and see what the status of your file is.

 

[Bunty123]

Yaar in my case my husband has sponsored me.. I just got free from my final exams and couldnt talk much coz of studies but yeah whatsapp per hoti thi during those days phir after that masha'Allah he got a new job whose timings are 9-5 to he wakes up and goes to office and by the time he comes back im deep asleep but he tries to call during his way back to home.. lol bari lambi umar hai abhi call bhi aa gai Jerry is write.. I think one shouldn't be dependent on the other one werna it gets really hard to spend time once the things change due to any reason may it be studies or job.

 

[Bunty123]

Yaar in my case my husband has sponsored me.. I just got free from my final exams and couldnt talk much coz of studies but yeah whatsapp per hoti thi during those days phir after that masha'Allah he got a new job whose timings are 9-5 to he wakes up and goes to office and by the time he comes back im deep asleep but he tries to call during his way back to home.. lol bari lambi umar hai abhi call bhi aa gai Jerry is write.. I think one shouldn't be dependent on the other one werna it gets really hard to spend time once the things change due to any reason may it be studies or job.

Jerry is right*

 

[jerry84]

Jerry is right*

AHAHHA SAME! Husband just called me too, lambi umr hai MA!

 

[Bunty123]

Yaar no matter what you do. ur brain is still stuck there. You cannot stop thinking about him and what hes up to and everything else.
Dramas dekho us mai husband yaad ata hai .. movie dekho us mai .. even on HGTV how people in long distance relationship end up moving in together and buying a house em like f**k why cant I do that? just move back

Buhahahhahaha I cant stop laughing! Its so freakin true!!! dramas, movies, songs kuch bhi ho husband zehan ma aa jaatay hain! LMAO! Its so melodramatic man! :s My minf is stuck there every single second!! It irritates me sometimes!

 

[jerry84]

Buhahahhahaha I cant stop laughing! Its so freakin true!!! dramas, movies, songs kuch bhi ho husband zehan ma aa jaatay hain! LMAO! Its so melodramatic man! :s My minf is stuck there every single second!! It irritates me sometimes!

CUZ WE ARE GIRLS! Long distance relationship can be very irritating sometimes. The important thing is sometimes just to give some space to each other .. mushkil hota hai but girls should realize this more. Kabhi kabhi husbands ko zara space dena chahiye aur humesha available to talk to nahi hona chahiye. It develops the relationship more .

 

[Bunty123]

true that. but i know we wont be able to survive without talking to each other everyday. Hats off to you guys that you people stay so calm and compose and strong.

I used to think the same but when we have to survive keeping in view the conditions then sab ho jaata hai! Its hard for me now a days coz we just changed our routines of not talking every day twice or thrice! But with time it will all be smooth inshaaAllah! Wohi im saying k dependent nahi hona chahye!

 

[jerry84]

I used to think the same but when we have to survive keeping in view the conditions then sab ho jaata hai! Its hard for me now a days coz we just changed our routines of not talking every day twice or thrice! But with time it will all be smooth inshaaAllah! Wohi im saying k dependent nahi hona chahye!

issi baat per +1

 

[Bunty123]

CUZ WE ARE GIRLS! Long distance relationship can be very irritating sometimes. The important thing is sometimes just to give some space to each other .. mushkil hota hai but girls should realize this more. Kabhi kabhi husbands ko zara space dena chahiye aur humesha available to talk to nahi hona chahiye. It develops the relationship more .

Yeah you are absolutely right! I never call my husband when he is out somewhere! I want him to enjoy few more years of bachelorhood jab tak Im not with him lol I strongly believe on this space thingy.

 

[Suzum27]

Jerry is right*

Firstly Bunty sahiba m sorry i knoww my reply is due on u! Will reply shortly! ;D ;D

Secondly bohut achi light topicmchal rahi hy! Well my nikkah was a quickie! He came,saw and conquered type n my mood at nikkah was veryyy chirpyyy! I was way talking too mch itna khe my mom scolded n said yeh larki sara makeup kharab kardei gi actually i don't wear makeup mch! I prefer staying naturall ! but thankfullyyy my pics turned out to b goood n everyone including my hubbyyy liked it ;D

Hum bhi ek dosrai ki pal pal ki khabar rakhnai walay couple hy! Viber 24/7 ! ;D n msn video chats on weekends ;D my sleeeeping tym is messed up lol meri subha...raat hyy...aur raaat...mera din! lol

 

[jerry84]

Our nikkah was just too good, because we had a proper bollywood moment. My dopatta got stuck with his shervani right when I was getting ready to sit on the stage. I think this is a very girly topic going on, may be we should make a separate thread lol.

 

[mansoorha]

To senior members,

Jan/Feb/March 2012 applications, Did any one hear back from CIC or any updates?

My spouse file transferred to ISL on Apr 2012, medical expired in Oct 2012 but no communication as yet...

 

[Suzum27]

CUZ WE ARE GIRLS! Long distance relationship can be very irritating sometimes. The important thing is sometimes just to give some space to each other .. mushkil hota hai but girls should realize this more. Kabhi kabhi husbands ko zara space dena chahiye aur humesha available to talk to nahi hona chahiye. It develops the relationship more .

Oh i have tried so manyyy times of u know giving space n talking less not on daily basis! Par hamesha hamesha i end up msging him at the end of dayyy :-[ mujhse nahee hota lol n he knwssss dat i can't stay away for a day even! :

 

[Bunty123]

Firstly Bunty sahiba m sorry i knoww my reply is due on u! Will reply shortly! ;D ;D

Secondly bohut achi light topicmchal rahi hy! Well my nikkah was a quickie! He came,saw and conquered type n my mood at nikkah was veryyy chirpyyy! I was way talking too mch itna khe my mom scolded n said yeh larki sara makeup kharab kardei gi actually i don't wear makeup mch! I prefer staying naturall ! but thankfullyyy my pics turned out to b goood n everyone including my hubbyyy liked it ;D

Hum bhi ek dosrai ki pal pal ki khabar rakhnai walay couple hy! Viber 24/7 ! ;D n msn video chats on weekends ;D my sleeeeping tym is messed up lol meri subha...raat hyy...aur raaat...mera din! lol

Hahaha Lol suzum! Jab aap ko munaasib lagay repky ker dejye ga

A day before nikkah my mum and chaachi said 'beta mun khol k mat hansna'!! Ughhh poori movie ma im controlling my smile and laughter just not to show my teeth and itna ghussa aaya dekh ker baad ma ajeeb hi lag rahi hun! Im a bit tom boyish and never wear make up to my mum and all friends were so amazed that how can I look sooo girlish! and can u imagine movie maker set 'sureeli ankhiun waalay' on my close ups of eyes!!! It was so damn embarrassing when I watched my nikkah video with my in laws and family!!

 

[jerry84]

Oh i have tried so manyyy times of u know giving space n talking less not on daily basis! Par hamesha hamesha i end up msging him at the end of dayyy :-[ mujhse nahee hota lol n he knwssss dat i can't stay away for a day even! :

And there is nothing wrong with that, a marriage should never have ego so that's a very good thing. I message him a little less now because I want him to enjoy as much as he can with his family and friends there. End main toh unho nay mere paas hee aana hai, I just want him to make the most of this time. It's hard but just like every other LD relationship, we are managing . Alhamdulillah, still far better than most.