Thank you for your answer, but this is a forum where you come to ask questions and I am sure sarcastic responses are not expected. I don't ask to be judged and I think it is extremely disrespectful that you call me in some way "exaggerated" and "paranoid".
It seems like now every time I ask for advice I get someone making a quick smart remark instead of a straight answer. Anyway, who ever would truly like to help I thank you, but if you post with the intent to feed your ego and relieve anger of sorts, then DON'T ANSWER!
I really don't care if I have -4 or -5 etc. I am here as an adult trying to start my residency process and not to play baby games.
Thank you.
No way did anyone call you paranoid, in fact the response was an extremely good positive one. The person was just stressing that you appeared not to have much to worry about with your application.
No one was judging you, the response was a good one. Most on this forum do not have knowledge of immigration lawyers and most of us have only ever heard of bad lawyers to be honest. I know I have for certain.
The obvious route is to use David Cohan, whom operates this free forum. I doubt any immigration lawyer is more experienced than him or his firm. So approach them first if you really feel you need help in your application.