a very much personal decision, still i need advice...............

[bobthebuilder]

hey frnds,
i am regular visitior of this forum.i have got the visa. planning to land soon with my wife & daughter of 4& half yrs.
as my girl is going to be of 5 yrs. we want our second baby now. there r two options before us, first to move to canada for a week, apply for PR card & then come back. we have our frnds in canada. we can give their address for PR card. then plan a baby & then move permanentally after 1 & half years with the family of four.
second option is to move in aug or sep with my pregnant wife & having a baby over there.
third option is to move there & then think of a baby. but i dont have any idea in how much time period we ll be able to think of a baby.
i want guidance in all these three options mainly after considering every type of financial expenses
no doubt its our personal decision but i am very much confused abt it.
any answer from any one will be precious for me
thanks in advance
bobby

 

[Curious2010]

any option you can take...
take care!

 

[hmisabpk]

hey frnds,
i am regular visitior of this forum.i have got the visa. planning to land soon with my wife & daughter of 4& half yrs.
as my girl is going to be of 5 yrs. we want our second baby now. there r two options before us, first to move to canada for a week, apply for PR card & then come back. we have our frnds in canada. we can give their address for PR card. then plan a baby & then move permanentally after 1 & half years with the family of four.
second option is to move in aug or sep with my pregnant wife & having a baby over there.
third option is to move there & then think of a baby. but i dont have any idea in how much time period we ll be able to think of a baby.
i want guidance in all these three options mainly after considering every type of financial expenses
no doubt its our personal decision but i am very much confused abt it.
any answer from any one will be precious for me
thanks in advance
bobby

Hi, bobthebuilder,

If you have good job and good earning then you can you think about 2nd option.
In my opinion you can land and try to start your new life here, admit your daughter in School, she will have better adjustment with new colleague and classmate, then within few month according to the situation you both can decide about next baby. You will came to know the how you can manage. If you will come with very newborn baby the life will be very difficult for few years, You may need bay setter which is very expense here. Now you both can adjust with one baby easily, but in some cases you have to think about many other factors including the age factor.
At the end it is completely your personal decision, may we can suggest only about the situation and difficulties people are facing with small babies.

Hope it will help you to decide better for your future and for your family.

Wish you good luck.


regards,

HMISABPK