Love_Young:
Thank you for your advice. I hope you don't have to go through what we did, hopefully your application goes through Vegreville and doesn't get transferred to a local office. I don't need the FOSS notes, I know or was told by our MP's office our reasons for refusal but they were all things that were covered in our application or extra evidence had been taken to show the IO at our interview. However our IO did not want to look at further evidence, I mean there wasn't much we could do. What kind of evidence can you build up living in separate countries? We have now e-mails, facebook chats and phone cards, actually a lot over the last month but I mean other than that there isn't much else you can really add... My husband is trying to get a visitor's visa so he can be here when our 2nd child is born. At this time I am a little leery in going to see him or live there as I am pregnant and would prefer to stay here and have medical care done here as he is from a poorer country. It doesn't really help when neither of us have a lot of money, having applied inland, he was not able to work for almost 2 years. I cant exactly afford to go live there and work for a couple hundred dollars a month vs. what I am earning here.
I don't know if I could take a year off from immigration either already knowing that his office takes 18 months in 80% of cases. It hurts just to think he may be gone for that long let alone to add more time but I can see where you are coming from. Our lawyer thought it was a good idea to wait a few months before reapplying though just so you can build up the proof that you are indeed communicating. But your right they can't take our love away, thanks again!
Jess.