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  1. ELOH

    Marriage is ending.

    Thank you all for your words of encouragement. I got so much help and information from this forum.
  2. ELOH

    Marriage is ending.

    We have ended the past and started new. Together! I have landed and am moving in two months!!!
  3. ELOH

    Landed!

    After almost three years and a full reconciliation with my husband, I have landed in Canada and am moving in two months. Thank you to everyone who so strongly encouraged and supported us. ! :)
  4. ELOH

    work permit

    Wow, thank you!
  5. ELOH

    work permit

    I have received documents to be approved for PR status. I have not entered Canada yet but have a Canadian address with my husband. How do I apply for work? How do I get a work permit? Do I need one?
  6. ELOH

    and the end

    four years later. almost two of waiting on CIC. And two weeks before we were approved, my husband called it quits. 2000 miles and 18 months was just too much. thank you everyone for your well wishes.
  7. ELOH

    Thread for outland Buffalo applicants!

    I finally received my request for passport documents. 17 months later. And two months too late.
  8. ELOH

    Marriage is ending.

    I am so sorry I posted this at all. I don't know why I did or what I expected. No one has lived what I have lived. It's true, I might be better off without him. My heart does not believe that, however. I just think had we known it was going to take two years to process instead of 8-10...
  9. ELOH

    Marriage is ending.

    My husband DID wait for years. Four to be exact. Two of those in marriage. It has nothing to do with being worth it. It has to do with waiting twice as long as expected to be together. It adds stress. Financial pressure. Frustration. Anger. Sadness. ALong with every day affairs, losing...
  10. ELOH

    Marriage is ending.

    Again, thank you for all your thoughts and sympathy. I asked him today if there were any hope at all and he said no. For me to give up. That four years of this had taken so much out of him that he had nothing left to give and somewhere in the last while he had stopped loving me as his wife...
  11. ELOH

    Marriage is ending.

    Thank you all. Maybe six months ago we could've saved it. But it has been too long and too stressful. He doesn't even want to see me. SO, maybe it was not the love I thought. Either way, my heart is broken. My marriage is broken. And I do not think it had to be.
  12. ELOH

    Marriage is ending.

    The additional stress of 2000 miles, extended waiting periods, dwindling savings accounts and living in limbo finally took its toll. Four years I have been with my husband. We have been married for two. We applied 16 months ago and are in our forties. He lost his mom. I lost my dad. We...
  13. ELOH

    done waiting.

    Thank you. We are trying everything. So suggestions are welcome.
  14. ELOH

    done waiting.

    Yes, sweeter to be with him. Of course. Thank you. The cost is always flight plus time off work and then anything we do while we are there. Unfortunately, it all adds up.
  15. ELOH

    done waiting.

    Thank you for your understanding. It sounds like you get it. And, ha, no, neither one of us wants to do this again or start over. We love each other very much and would stay single if we chose to end it, which he will not allow, even when I get discouraged. He is good like that. He has...
  16. ELOH

    done waiting.

    This is actually one of the things we are now considering though it wouldn't be for six months. I could only afford to go for maybe two months in the spring, hoping that we would hear something in those two months. THank you.
  17. ELOH

    gcms notes? link?

    Thank you so much! We are doing this first thing tomorrow.
  18. ELOH

    done waiting.

    Yes, my husband was approved as sponsor late December of 2011 and they told him they were starting to process my application then. So, it has been almost a year in the processing of MY application. Should that make a difference?
  19. ELOH

    done waiting.

    Thank you everyone for the encouragement and suggestion to order notes. I plan to have him do that tomorrow. That might give me an idea of what's going on but I guess I'm just at the point like many of you where I want to speed it up, not just know what's going on. Will notes tell me if I'm...
  20. ELOH

    16 months of waiting!

    lunas, thank you so much. That's so helpful. I appreciate it. :)