Abandoned PLEASE HELP!!!!
- Thread starter Dylan89
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No, but asking to be forgiven sometimes breaks the ice formed around a hardened heart. Sometimes separations are about pride and you have to be willing to say you were wrong.begging for love is never a good idea
Their situation seems beyond that if she just had everything removed from their shared home. If she just didn't want to be with him anymore, what is he begging for? Removing a child from a father without notice, unless there was abuse, is not something that requires begging on his part, imho. Obviously, we don't know all the details of what caused this... but I think he needs to focus on the needs of his daughter now and seeking legal advice so he can co-parent.
Oh the comments here are so funny...but instead of reading i will chime in. First of all if the wife is gone he has no legal leg to stand on so please stop fooling him. He's basically without status in the country if she decides to abandoned him and the application. If he's an American Citizen I would advice him to return to your country. For a woman to walk out and leave you with nothing there must be a really bad situation that we are not privy to. Women just don't pick up their kid (s) and move out. Maybe she has another man or maybe Covid has her not thinking right...we don't know. He cannot apply for welfare or any type of government assistance. Please, if you can return to the US do so, instead of staying in Cornwall with nothing. Leave her to cool off and maybe she will come around. Something has upset her....we have all been there.
Maybe the word "beg" was the wrong one, but the fact remains that if they can solve their issues, then they should do so or at least try. It seemed to me that her family was a bigger influence on the whole taking all the things from their home thing. I am thinking they probably were not for the marriage in the first place and pushed her in that direction. However, that is pure speculation and I don't know why the relationship went "toxic" as he stated. Obviously, if it is not salvageable, then it's not. I feel he should at least try. They got married because they loved each other, I assume, and had a kid, which is a substantial thing. She did not cancel his sponsorship and he did not say there was a divorce filed, so maybe there is hope. Sometimes people just need to take a step back and decide if they really want to go down the path they are on. I am just one that will fight for my relationship and husband as long as I can, until I know I have done everything in my power to make the situation right or better. Sometimes that doesn't work, but it is better than wondering what could have been if only you had tried a little harder. I have been there and tried and tried again. With my ex, there was no hope after doing all I could on my part although there were times where the effort did make a difference. With my present husband, the trying made the situation better and the issue went away. I could have taken the easy route and given up, but then I would be alone, miserable, and divorced.
I can't believe this conversation is still going on given that the OP has not replied since the first day. Leave him in peace! You're treating his troubling situation like a soap opera, the fact is that none of us know what happened between OP and his partner so let's stop making things up. I'm sure if he wants relationship advice he'll ask for it.
She likely took all the stuff because it was all hers! Of course women move out with their kids. Based on OP's posts this wasn't a huge surprise the wife had said one of them had to move out. It's crazy what kind of stereotypes people still have. Based on previous posts he didn't seem to enter Canada with much money and a visitor he couldn't move furniture from the US.
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