Yes I did, but that's because we spoke for almost 8 months prior then I came for 3 weeks and the feelings never ever changed we truly loved one another since talking and then being able to be with one another, I'm not a child I know life, I'm almost 40 next month, he's not young either , so I Dont know which law states we have to follow certain time frames to meet, marry , have children and so on, I understand there's fraud but they have to understand not everyone is dishonest..
Which is absolutely fine and you're correct there is no laws saying how long you need to be in a relationship before marriage but I think what mikeymyke is trying to say is that you just need to be ready for them to question it and getting defensive will not help you. Just be calm and honest and sincere about your relationship, that's all you can do. Is he younger than you? They typically question women who are older than men a fair bit about that as well. Again, there's no rules about these things but they base their questions around what is considered "normal" in Canadian society. You've said in previous posts that you've had a previous marriage which you sponsored someone on so be prepared for questions about that too. And your husband has children as well which they might ask about, as well as your relationship to them.
You have quite a few red flags. A mostly online relationship and marrying soon after meeting in person is a huge red flag. There is also his excluded child, the fact that you previously sponsored a spouse, that you are a low-income person on disability, that your spouse is from a country with a higher rate of marriage fraud. Individually, each of those is not such a big deal; however, add it all together, it becomes consequential.
And it was 4 months after we got married, I left Jamaica to go home and we planned the wedding, from over there , I came, my children came, I married my love of my life. We've been by one anothers side since then. I spent 3 months of this year alone here, 6-8 months in 2017, lived the whole of 2016 with him and my Canadian children. So how the hell can someone say we Dont love one another, I lost a child for him, his daughter got shot, they killed her mother ( she was at her mothers place) , my mother in- law mother has stage 4 cancer I've BEEN THROUGH THIS ALL WITY HIM, my dad is very I'll with prostate cancer, my father and my mother talk to my husband and my step daughter EVERY day, they are all waiting for us finally to be back in Canada where our children can reunite, and we can move on with our marriage in peace after everything we've been through together.. What could they possibly not understand? I'm so lost..
That's fine, he knew when we first started talking, I didn't hide or lie about anything to him , like he didn't to me, I'm going to be 40, my husband will be 37.. Talked for 8 months from march 2014- online then I came in 2015 . married in 2016 .. Been together since we've been talking, the only thing is this, the Facebook account I was on I couldn't log in and they wanted me to send ID in to reset the link as I was having trouble logging in, I said omg forget so I made a new one, so my husband picked right up from the day of me making a new account from 2015 and I've used it ever since until today..
I have pictures and we have chats and pictures, am I allowed to use my phone to show evidence??
