I truly sympathize with you and other oppressed minorities. Oppression and persecution does not have a place in any civilized society. Imho, the pink elephant in the room must be addressed in order to have a realistic solution. However, some radicals might soon be the ruling majority, even in Canada, judging by incidents like this:
Could be game over, not just for you and your fellow Shaivists, but also for the rest of the world who holds a different belief...
Good luck to you and here's hoping you find safe refuge (at least for now) in western countries such as Canada!