I have a Nigerian friend (we've been chatting on the net, webcam, phone, etc) since 5 yrs. We would like to meet. He is much younger then me, and we have no intention to marry etc...we just want to take our friendship one step further. He is financially stable, and has a job, as well as his own business, therefore it will be easier for him to come to Canada, rather then me fly to Nigeria. However due to divorce and not finding employing because of my age, I am receiving welfare. Is it still somehow possible to send him a letter of invitation so he can get a visitors visa? He is stable over there and can show money in the bank too. He would only stay a few weeks , I have no fear that he will not return. It is all very legit. We would like to have some time together, but have been told that I can stop wishing for this , as nothing will ever be approved as long as I am on welfare. Is there no hope , no way ? Please, any input, advise etc will be very much appreciated. Thanks in advance.