my last post was when my husband make a mockery out of me and get my sponsership refuse, because he wanted to move on with someone else, now the woman decide she need to move on and leave him he now wants to say sorry for all he did to me and he want to refile and beg me to forgive him .what do you feel i should say to him anyone ?
to late for sorrys or sould i rethink
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I think this is a personal relationship issue and you need to decide what you want for your life, everyone is different.
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suezy said:
If you're asking our opinion, you obviously lack the trust for him to make a decision on your own. That pretty much answers the question of what you should do.
If you want more advice, however, this probably isn't the best place for it.
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From the immigration stand point I have to say that I think if you were to get back together and refile it would just be another refusal based on what happened the last time and what he said in the interview.
Besides that he is scum probably....you should read about the spouse in abusive relationships and how there is still a strong hold after you leave that makes a person think of going back for that positive approval from their abuser.
Besides that he is scum probably....you should read about the spouse in abusive relationships and how there is still a strong hold after you leave that makes a person think of going back for that positive approval from their abuser.
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Wow Suezy - I am proud of you. Yours and your children's lives will be so much better not having to take abuse from that man. You are so much better than that 
Good luck to you!
Good luck to you!