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[NYCtoNB]

i am sitting here trying to figure out how someone is expected to sum up a relationship, a whole relationship, in some letter. how does one gauge
and quantify love. I'm having so much trouble with this it's making me sick. i was pretty concise with all the other questions just getting the basics of the wedding, first date, and reception out but this part... how do i explain how much i have come to love and feel loved over the past two years of being with my husband.

 

[rorita_76]

Hey there, just be yourself, express you feelings, be honest, don't be shy. Write a letter that express your love and feeling to your husband as it is. We are not suppose to be writer and write in a very good way. just be yourself, and don't be shy.
good luck

 

[vivam]

NYCtoNB,

I don't believe you have to put your emotions on paper, that would be difficult for me as well, so what I have done is do a narrative using the questions on IMM5490 as my outline. For example, I have a section how we met, how relationship developed etc. I have found this to be quite helpful as it includes details you might have missed because it forces you to recall memories you don't keep in mind daily. I then used my narrative to go back and flesh out my answers. I also used this narrative as reference where more details were necessary.

Frankly I don't think CIC is too interested in the details of the romantic part of your relationship.