I.N said:
Hey Missmini,
Thank you for the encouragments!
How are you doing?
Your file will be sooon get open in Missisagua...

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As for me, yes, need to find my patience once again, but it becomes more difficult in the end I guess.
Like you said ,could delay the whole process my divorce, I use to live in Paris, I got married in Paris...of course they have to check all that and takes more time than for an usual case.
When I applyed back then for a temporary visa of course I was very straight forward, sincer, I think to sincer, people like me get ( "pumni" in fata pentru restu care mint... :'() but no problem, very soon this process will have an end and I will forget about all this stress and anxity.
And if I am in the timeframe I really don't know becouse I don't know exactly when our file got in the sistem in Bucharest, MP said in January, do you think I should count 6 months from then?! It's insane!

....we applied in July last year...shouldn't that count for something??!!
Ok, like you said, everthing will be just fine, but I am very anxious all the time for all this process to come to an end, staing far away from my husbund it's not easy at all but what we can do about it, absolutely nothing, just wait! I would realy prefer to have an interview than to wait for so long not knowing a thing...( e chiar nebunesc...

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We will contact my husbund MP once again if we don't have news...
Thanks once again for your replay...pe curand!
hi I.N.
i'm fine!!! yes time passes and i hope our file will be opened sooooooon...may God hear ur words

i know everyone says be patient, be patient and it's hard....even me, i'm ok now (obviously! we just started) but who knows how i'll b down the road, and who knows if our road will b smooth or full of hurdles...all i can do is pray...i think i would go to church every day if I'd still b where u r; here they r but very few and far; so i just do it home, before i go to sleep...we accomplished lots of things in life (and I'm sure u did too!!!) and we will accomplish this too sooner or later

the most important is to believe and to stay sane => don't let it ruin our health and daily well being
it's good that u were honest when u applied for TRV....even if it came with a refusal!!!!! and yeah it's sad that we suffer from the ones which are not...by the way, i saw u wrote on the December thread and u were surprised of mistletoes getting already her/his PPR....FYI there's another member also from December thread, from India, who got it in 27 days!!!!!! imagine that, some 27 days others 27 months!!!!!! it is definitely sad and frustrating but we can't do anything...and no i don't think it's really abt fairness; everything in Ca is based on statistics - percentage of marriage fraud (which surprisingly for India is high but also the officers r better trained to detect it, they have better experience

) but not only; they also follow the applicants - new PRs once they r in Canada; their criminal records, how they adapted, tax fraud, how well the children do in school, etc etc etc...with all these they make statistics and that's why some offices r faster (less checks, more welcomed nationalities) and some r slower.....i did read an article abt this some time ago...
me tooo i would think an off-guard interview could b much faster than studying a bunch of papers...if the couple say they live together go check, ask neighbors, go to their address; call directly at an interview from the beginning without too much time to prepare....it would b much easier to talk to someone face to face....but for that they need to change a whole system i think, which takes time and costs money....
as for the timeframe, yeah i'm confused tooooo....unfortunately the time ur application stayed in Canada does not count in the VO's 6 months frame; but even if they have the application in the system in January, i think u should start counting from the day ur husband got the sponsor approval, November 8 (maybe 2 weeks after, it usually takes 2 weeks to transfer)...so yeah maybe other 2-3 months of wait

....u can also order the CAIPS notes and see what they write there; ooh, one more thing, did u apply for the CSQ? (if u said before and i forgot i'm sooooooorry)...cuz some embassies wait for the CSQ too before they start processing....if u got it make sure the embassy has it, ask them to confirm....
if u feel they might have questions cuz of ur divorce, than be proactive!!!! gather more proofs since u applied, put together ur phone bills, emails, sms, chats, skype, gifts u sent to each other, if u traveled together, etc etc; maybe plan a trip together it will keep u busy

maybe he can come and visit u (for Easter!!!)....u will have everything handy just in case....
good luck...keep in touch si pe curand!!!
