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Eric Parker

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Jun 26, 2008
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While my wife will have no problem getting approved for sponsorship, there could be a possible sticking point for the VO during the next stage...as far as proving my relationship with my wife.

I met her in 2001, got engaged in 2002. We were married just recently in may, 2009. However, she has been married previously, but got divorced.

This is where the sticking point could be.

In February, 2000, her Ex was legally escorted (physically removed by the RCMP) out of her life (as well as her 4 kids life) due do his physical abuse of her and mental abuse of the children. Divorce proceedings immediately started at that point and was not finalized until February 2003 - after we got engaged. I was fully aware of these facts concerning her and her Ex.

Ther is also something else - her Ex, even though he had limited visitation rights, chose not to use those rights and, as a result, has had no contact with her and her 4 kids for years. Needless to say, he has no knowledge of our marriage. When we did our appliccations, we estimated where he lives (reverse phone number search) since we did not know where he actually is because of this lack of contact.

Will these facts be 'red flags' for the VO processing my case and precipitate an interview? Her Ex is prone to violence and spitefullness and we are worried that the VO may give her Ex a phone call - letting him know about our marriage that may lead him to be even more violent and may cause trouble with our application and our safety. On the other hand, if the VO can't get a hold of him (he never calls back to anyone), that too could be a 'red flag' for the VO? Also, the timeline - Her Ex removed in 2000, I met her in 01, us engaged in 02, her divorced finalized in 03 - would be a stmbling block? She has all the paperwork of her divorce decree (which we sent) and other items, but would the time line, and the Ex's attitude, make our application in jeopardy?

Or am I borrowing trouble here?
 
You are borrowing trouble. It's definitely not unheard of that people go into new relationships while separated or even while married. There is no law against that.
 
I have had a similar problem too..I got married in NOV 2007 with my exhusband that he is mental and he is on a medication under PTSD but we never stay together and I was trying to get a lawyer for divorce after a week at the court house. but i didn't do it until my current boyfriend helping me to get the lawyer..it has been for a while to get it done because he didn't want to sign but finally the finalize on FEB 2009 take very long time. but I have known and in a serious relationship with my current boyfriend on May 2008 until now so Does this make any effect or long process for when i apply the PR outland from the us. ?


PS. My status = out of status for 2 yrs. since March 2007
I had valid 1 year visa in the us from march 2006-march2007


I have more stress now but since i have known the website since yesterday,I feel better and this is very helpful!!!