Plz help me

[Sana17]

Hi to everyone,
I won't take too much for your time.
I was married to this guy from back home.
I stayed with him for a year in my country. Found out he was cheating on me etc...
So came back to canada stopped his visa.
Then again i got married to another guy in my country.
Now his visa is ready for pick up bt i dont know why I'm scaired. I feel he might be the same as my ex.
I have heard about deportation. If i get cheated again would I be able to deport him?????? 2014 I applied to his paper work. Plz help me

 

[canuck_in_uk]

No, you can't deport him if he cheats on you.

If you can't trust him, you shouldn't have married and sponsored him.

 

[Sana17]

No, you can't deport him if he cheats on you.

If you can't trust him, you shouldn't have married and sponsored him.

Cheat I meant by him just coming to canada and leaving me. Nobody can find out if their spouses are cheating on them. So we have to bring them.

 

[scylla]

Cheat I meant by him just coming to canada and leaving me. Nobody can find out if their spouses are cheating on them. So we have to bring them.

CiC won't deport someone just because you tell them to. It doesn't work that way. You should be sure of your relationship before you sponsor someone.

Keep in mind that you are financially responsible for your husband for three years after he arrives in Canada. This means that if he goes on welfare at any time during the first three years, you will be responsible for repaying this money.

 

[MonzB]

Cheat I meant by him just coming to canada and leaving me. Nobody can find out if their spouses are cheating on them. So we have to bring them.

First of you shouldn't marry someone you don't trust. Second, if you go onto CIC website i believe for relationships that less than you years old they monitor the relationship...I can be wrong. CIC made changes because they are people who are being sponsored and when they arrive are abuse by their spouse.

Also, you should trust your decision, if you bring your husband here and god forbid it doesn't work out. you have to let it go. why do you need them deported? I am sponsoring my husband, but i am not worry about, "what if" because I love him and that is one of the many reasons that i got marry to him. What think of cheating, divorce and deporting...it just poison your mind and your relationship...

All the best and I do hope you figure it out! Good Luck!

 

[MonzB]

CiC won't deport someone just because you tell them to. It doesn't work that way. You should be sure of your relationship before you sponsor someone.

Keep in mind that you are financially responsible for your husband for three years after he arrives in Canada. This means that if he goes on welfare at any time during the first three years, you will be responsible for repaying this money.

100% correct... Before even getting marry to someone outside of Canada and then submitting an Application to CIC one should be fully aware of what they are committing i.e. paying back any debt or government assistance that the person goes on for the first 3 years that they are in the country.

 

[scylla]

Second, if you go onto CIC website i believe for relationships that less than you years old they monitor the relationship...I can be wrong. CIC made changes because they are people who are being sponsored and when they arrive are abuse by their spouse.

No longer true. Conditional PR is gone. The Liberals have revoked it.

 

[MonzB]

No longer true. Conditional PR is gone. The Liberals have revoked it.

that's right, wasn't 100% sure aboutt that

My theory... don't marry someone you don't trust...Relationship is doom for failure from the start.

 

[mikeymyke]

You shouldn't marry someone if you don't feel 100% they're not marrying you to come to Canada. And if it was me, and I sponsored someone from a country, and she ended up cheating or wanting to come Canada, I don't think I'd necessarily like to go that route again, probably would rather try to find someone in Canada, at least you know they won't be marrying you for PR.

And you're right, usually you won't know that your spouse would leave you until they actually come here. But that's why you're supposed to do your due-diligence. Meeting your inlaws often, seeing how they behave around you, meeting his friends. Seeing if anyone suddenly has an interest in going to Canada. Getting your parents to meet his family and vice versa. Having a long courtship before marriage. Asking if he's ok to live in his home country if application denied. etc.

 

[MonzB]

You shouldn't marry someone if you don't feel 100% they're not marrying you to come to Canada. And if it was me, and I sponsored someone from a country, and she ended up cheating or wanting to come Canada, I don't think I'd necessarily like to go that route again, probably would rather try to find someone in Canada, at least you know they won't be marrying you for PR.

agreed