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SOS PLEASE

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plese help me. i am in a serious problem. i am a single mom with 2 kids with my ex spouse. i sponsored them and become permanent residence last september 2015. after 2 months my ex spouse got a job since then he never supported us and started not going home with us, because of that me and my kids seperated at him January 2016...things are getting worse between us. at august 2016 me and my kids decided moved out in the province because i can't take it anymore that he don't care about us. now we are leaving in different province just to have a peaceful life and start without him, when we moved out he promised me to give support to his kids. he did that only for a couple of months. i filled a divorce uncontested last october 2016 because he don't care anymore about us..now he is leaving with somebody, he is jobless now. he don't want to work, he just want to enjoy his life here in canada. now i am worried because he is not paying his monthly amortization for the my car loan that i get for him when he come here in canada. the bank keep calling me because he is unreachable now, please help me what to do.. he is jobless, living with new gf, not supporting his 2 kids and not paying the car loan..can i report him for deportation? i am suffering now for what he did, all i know to is strugle our 2 kids and raise them well as a single mom. he has no mercy
 
SOS PLEASE said:
plese help me. i am in a serious problem. i am a single mom with 2 kids with my ex spouse. i sponsored them and become permanent residence last september 2015. after 2 months my ex spouse got a job since then he never supported us and started not going home with us, because of that me and my kids seperated at him January 2016...things are getting worse between us. at august 2016 me and my kids decided moved out in the province because i can't take it anymore that he don't care about us. now we are leaving in different province just to have a peaceful life and start without him, when we moved out he promised me to give support to his kids. he did that only for a couple of months. i filled a divorce uncontested last october 2016 because he don't care anymore about us..now he is leaving with somebody, he is jobless now. he don't want to work, he just want to enjoy his life here in canada. now i am worried because he is not paying his monthly amortization for the my car loan that i get for him when he come here in canada. the bank keep calling me because he is unreachable now, please help me what to do.. he is jobless, living with new gf, not supporting his 2 kids and not paying the car loan..can i report him for deportation? i am suffering now for what he did, all i know to is strugle our 2 kids and raise them well as a single mom. he has no mercy
You need to get a lawyer involved. This is a Family Law issue and not an immigration question. You can't enforce his deportation and if your ex-spouse is not subject to conditional PR, IRCC will not be interested. Sorry but you need to consult with a professional.
 
SOS PLEASE said:
plese help me. i am in a serious problem. i am a single mom with 2 kids with my ex spouse. i sponsored them and become permanent residence last september 2015. after 2 months my ex spouse got a job since then he never supported us and started not going home with us, because of that me and my kids seperated at him January 2016...things are getting worse between us. at august 2016 me and my kids decided moved out in the province because i can't take it anymore that he don't care about us. now we are leaving in different province just to have a peaceful life and start without him, when we moved out he promised me to give support to his kids. he did that only for a couple of months. i filled a divorce uncontested last october 2016 because he don't care anymore about us..now he is leaving with somebody, he is jobless now. he don't want to work, he just want to enjoy his life here in canada. now i am worried because he is not paying his monthly amortization for the my car loan that i get for him when he come here in canada. the bank keep calling me because he is unreachable now, please help me what to do.. he is jobless, living with new gf, not supporting his 2 kids and not paying the car loan..can i report him for deportation? i am suffering now for what he did, all i know to is strugle our 2 kids and raise them well as a single mom. he has no mercy

Can I suggest you take your case to a Service Canada office. If you're the sponsor and the PR hasn't kept up their part of the contract (sorry to put it like that but that's what it is) then Service Canada will tell you what steps to take. If you've sponsored the PR through Spousal Sponsorship and within a year the relationship has broken down then I'm pretty sure the Canadian government will investigate your cause. The agreement normally suggests that you and your partner live together for a period of 2 years (at least that's what my contract states). If I was to leave my wife today and she informed Service Canada then because the sponsorship agreement has been broken I would have no other option but to return to my home country.
 
Andynd1uk said:
Can I suggest you take your case to a Service Canada office. If you're the sponsor and the PR hasn't kept up their part of the contract (sorry to put it like that but that's what it is) then Service Canada will tell you what steps to take. If you've sponsored the PR through Spousal Sponsorship and within a year the relationship has broken down then I'm pretty sure the Canadian government will investigate your cause. The agreement normally suggests that you and your partner live together for a period of 2 years (at least that's what my contract states). If I was to leave my wife today and she informed Service Canada then because the sponsorship agreement has been broken I would have no other option but to return to my home country.

You know what Service Canada offices do - right? They issue health cards and driver's licenses and stuff like that. They don't deal with immigration and certainly won't give immigration advice.

If there's an issue, it needs to be reported directly to CIC. CIC will only investigate if the PR is conditional. Given they have kids together - it's quite likely PR is not conditional.
 
scylla said:
You know what Service Canada offices do - right? They issue health cards and driver's licenses and stuff like that. They don't deal with immigration and certainly won't give immigration advice.

If there's an issue, it needs to be reported directly to CIC. CIC will only investigate if the PR is conditional. Given they have kids together - it's quite likely PR is not conditional.

Well here in Calgary we have the Harry Hays building, which is operated by Service Canada and when my wife and I were going through the beginning stages of applying for my permanent residency they offered an absolute ton of advice and even set up a meeting with an Immigration Consultant so that's why I suggested it. ;D
 
Thanks so much for the advices..now don't know what to do because he wants to fight me in the court fo his permanent residency...how dare him..now he is scaring me that i cannot deport him because he is my obligation as the one who sponsored him..seriously he has no mercy at all for me and my kids..now his girl friend is bothering me, let me jealous of him..and keep bothering me..i am emotionally affected now.please help
 
SOS PLEASE said:
Thanks so much for the advices..now don't know what to do because he wants to fight me in the court fo his permanent residency...how dare him..now he is scaring me that i cannot deport him because he is my obligation as the one who sponsored him..seriously he has no mercy at all for me and my kids..now his girl friend is bothering me, let me jealous of him..and keep bothering me..i am emotionally affected now.please help
Please understand, there is no easy solution for you from here. You can't deport him and you are responsible for the remaining term of the sponsorship commitment. This is always the risk of sponsoring someone. CIC make it very clear that relationship breakdown does not void the undertaking before you sign the papers. He doesn't need to fight YOU in court for his permanent residency, as YOU can't revoke it.

I've already suggested consulting with a professional...
 
Thanks for the advices..what if he is using and pushing drugs? Is it possible for deportation? When we are at the same province before he used to asked many, many times to try at least just once and he told me that see after how you feel.. i am suspecting now that he is realy doing that because how can he survived in everyday life if he have no job.where did he get he's money? I am not crazy and irresponsile mother and individual to do drugs never crossed in my mind to try drugs. Now i am scared because his new girlfriend is a drug user as well, this information is from gf parents because i seek for help to talk and counsel their daughter to stop bothering me.help please..don't know what to do
 
Consult a lawyer thats all you can realistically do as you will not get any professional level advice from a public forum for such a complex situation.
 
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No offence you might be right in whatever you going through. But it seems that you just want to have him deported one way or the other.
Since you have kids with him.I doubt that you will be able to prove that your relationship was not genuine.
Furthermore whatever is going on between you two is more likely a problem in a marriage. Therefore see a lawyer to get help with that issue rather than wasting your energy on having him deported.
 
No offence you might be right in whatever you going through. But it seems that you just want to have him deported one way or the other.
Since you have kids with him.I doubt that you will be able to prove that your relationship was not genuine.
Furthermore whatever is going on between you two is more likely a problem in a marriage. Therefore see a lawyer to get help with that issue rather than wasting your energy on having him deported.
You replied to a thread 18 months old..the problem is most likely solved by now.