I mean my following comments with respect, and i understand that it is hard to show tone online...
I think all of us that are being processed through a developing country understands the barriers in the process, and the need for integrity in the process. Sponsors are either from there, or like me, have visited these countries and understand the political climate and the risks.
However, understanding the why doesn't change our reality or our expectations. It doesn't change the fact that we worry about our spouses and our children every day. It doesn't change the fact that we worry every day that someone that knows nothing about us can stop us being with our loved ones and we have no control over it. It doesn't change that fact that my kids and my husband are at higher risk of being kidnapped because I am a white Canadian. Knowing the why doesn't stop us from being lonely, for feeling disengaged at work and in the community, for questioning why someone that applied a month after us at the same VO has heard and we haven't.
Most of us are Canadians too, we pay the same fees for this process as those going through a developed country. Yet our experience is VERY different.
I know how this feels for me. I can only imagine how this process would feel for populations that already feel that systems work against them, that feel systemic racism. This process would just reinforce that. Even if there is a reason as to why the process is slower.
The process as it is isn't working for everyone. So maybe the process needs to change, maybe people need to think differently about the problem and find unique, creative and innovative solutions.
For us, we had the option to sit back and just allow the process to eat us alive, or stand up and say that this isn't fair or right. We chose to speak up. If nothing else, it gives us hope that things will get better.