Hey New comer! It's hard waiting but don't feel depressed try being positive and keep yourself, being depressed brings a lot of other problems too. Which visa office are you? I'm New Delhi and they are taking FOREVER with processing and they don't seem to have a system but I try not to get myself down. I chat with my husband daily (long distance) and I feel blessed that I have found a good man in my life. Just pray and hope for a speedy process