Hi, (I am an American citizen), I plan on marrying my girlfriend (She's coming from the Phillippines) after the first 1 or 2 months of our stay in Ontario next winter of 2020. As much as I'd love to marry her sooner upon our arrival, I'm not sure if that will look good to the person reviewing my documents/application as they might think we're only marrying for for the eligibility to stay in Canada. By that time, we would've planned our marriage for about 1 year total. She is going to start being an international full-time college student by January 2020. She is going to Canada with a student visa of course while I am going as a visitor with my U.S. passport. So...
How Likely Am I to get a SOWP?
(Spouse Open Work Permit)
Here's some background info + details of what I've done and plan on doing
(Please read the following and let me know if there's anything I should or shouldn't do):
- My girlfriend and I actually genuinely love each other and want to physically be together. We want to just do a civil wedding ceremony first so we can have our legally married status (allowing us to live together). I'm not sure if we'll have any friends/relatives attending as they live in seperate countries and it will be too troublesome to have them come over. However, around 5 years after the time we arrive in Canada, we'll go to another country to have another marriage, but with friends/family invited.
- We will definitely take lots of pictures together as well, especially since the photos might be needed to be shown. Currently, we're still doing a LDR and pretty much talk mainly on Discord, using text + voice/video chat. Currently, the total messages we've sent to each other is at 46,000+ and by the time we go to Canada, the number would probably be close to 200,000 messages. We've also voice/video chatted numerous times as well and sent each other many selfies.
(I hope it's not an issue, but we've dirty talked as well and shared "lewd" stuff with each other. I don't know if it's gonna make it awkward for the person reading, but hopefully, that proves even more that we want each other lol.)
- We'll try to show our letters/texts from family members/friends that shows they're aware of our marriage
- We share social media login infos.
- We'll probably have each other as dependents on life insurance by then I think.
- If it's possible, since we're both coming from different counties, we'll try to get a notarized affidavits in Canada
- I will bring an experience letter from my employer
- She's bought me food I really like/wanted with Doordash a few times, wrote me poems, sung me songs, and bought me a nice, very thoughtful Valentine's Day gift
- In return, I've poured my heart out by having spent countless hours drawing many pictures of her for her specifically since she strongly loves and appreciates my art
- I have pretty strong ties to my home country because my parents + brother lives there as well as a majority of my belongings since I won't bring much to Canada as a visitor other than the following: high school transcript + diploma + US college transcript + associates degree + IDs/Passport + Bank Paperwork, clothes, hygiene stuff, potential materials/supplies needed for work, my phone
- I have traveled outside of the United States in 2013 to Hong Kong, Beijing and Thailand which spanned for a period of 2 consecutive months. Before that, I have also traveled to Hong Kong around 2 times around the year 2001.
- I am currently looking for a job in the United States where I live. I should have at least somewhere between $18,670 - $25,000 CAD in my own bank account by the time I arrive in Canada. I will have accumulated around 7 or 8 months of work experience total working in a restaurant, however, I'm not sure how much work experience is needed to be accepted. I believe it should be enough for me to support my own living there for at least 1 year.
- My girlfriend will be staying in Canada for 5 years from January 2020. (2 years of study in science field + 3 years with job/work visa) I believe her parents will help her pay for her own tuition + living expenses for the time being. Afterwards, she'll have to leave when the visa expires.
(We won't spend much money on anything other than our basic needs, wifi, etc. Also, we will split the rent at a decently priced apartment. If the site I visited goes by CAD, then we should each be paying around $492 CAD per month x 12 = totaling up to $5910 CAD a year.)
- I'll bring everything listed in that picture
(Side note: My spouse by then will also bring and show them her necessary/required documents as well.)
Additional Questions (Please answer if you can):
1.) Should we also say that we're not going to leave right when her 5 years are over? I saw that some people got their application rejected because "the person deciding didn't like that they want to leave after" or something.
2.) Also, for those of you who's successfully gotten the SOWP, it would be great if you can share with me what crucial stuff you had to bring as well as what else made you qualify.
3.) Does my travel history, ties, purpose of visit, personal assets, financial status and any other potential factors make me qualify? (Side note, I will let them know that I want to stay in Canada to work, gain valuable job experience, contribute to the company and live with my wife.)
4.) Are there any important things in particular I should say or not say? (Such as how long I plan to stay, if they prefer that I leave right when my spouse's visa ends, etc.)
5.) I probably won't have a job offer before I enter Canada, but I do have an Associates in Art Degree. (art + game design classes) So, will I fall under the 0, A, B category if I look for a job in that field? Also, will my past job of only having worked at a restaurant (C level) have a bad effect?
(If my list above has anything that's missing or not needed/required, please let me know. Hopefully, preparing/planning around 8 months ahead can give me a strong chance of getting the SOWP. Thank you for reading, I hope you guys can help me out in succeeding on one attempt. I really don't want to leave her alone in Canada while I have to wait in the U.S. for a while to go right back when my 6 months of stay + possible extension is over. I know the processing time can typically last anywhere between 1-4 months. I really want to make her happy and physically be there for her.)
How Likely Am I to get a SOWP?
(Spouse Open Work Permit)
Here's some background info + details of what I've done and plan on doing
(Please read the following and let me know if there's anything I should or shouldn't do):
- My girlfriend and I actually genuinely love each other and want to physically be together. We want to just do a civil wedding ceremony first so we can have our legally married status (allowing us to live together). I'm not sure if we'll have any friends/relatives attending as they live in seperate countries and it will be too troublesome to have them come over. However, around 5 years after the time we arrive in Canada, we'll go to another country to have another marriage, but with friends/family invited.
- We will definitely take lots of pictures together as well, especially since the photos might be needed to be shown. Currently, we're still doing a LDR and pretty much talk mainly on Discord, using text + voice/video chat. Currently, the total messages we've sent to each other is at 46,000+ and by the time we go to Canada, the number would probably be close to 200,000 messages. We've also voice/video chatted numerous times as well and sent each other many selfies.
(I hope it's not an issue, but we've dirty talked as well and shared "lewd" stuff with each other. I don't know if it's gonna make it awkward for the person reading, but hopefully, that proves even more that we want each other lol.)
- We'll try to show our letters/texts from family members/friends that shows they're aware of our marriage
- We share social media login infos.
- We'll probably have each other as dependents on life insurance by then I think.
- If it's possible, since we're both coming from different counties, we'll try to get a notarized affidavits in Canada
- I will bring an experience letter from my employer
- She's bought me food I really like/wanted with Doordash a few times, wrote me poems, sung me songs, and bought me a nice, very thoughtful Valentine's Day gift
- In return, I've poured my heart out by having spent countless hours drawing many pictures of her for her specifically since she strongly loves and appreciates my art
- I have pretty strong ties to my home country because my parents + brother lives there as well as a majority of my belongings since I won't bring much to Canada as a visitor other than the following: high school transcript + diploma + US college transcript + associates degree + IDs/Passport + Bank Paperwork, clothes, hygiene stuff, potential materials/supplies needed for work, my phone
- I have traveled outside of the United States in 2013 to Hong Kong, Beijing and Thailand which spanned for a period of 2 consecutive months. Before that, I have also traveled to Hong Kong around 2 times around the year 2001.
- I am currently looking for a job in the United States where I live. I should have at least somewhere between $18,670 - $25,000 CAD in my own bank account by the time I arrive in Canada. I will have accumulated around 7 or 8 months of work experience total working in a restaurant, however, I'm not sure how much work experience is needed to be accepted. I believe it should be enough for me to support my own living there for at least 1 year.
- My girlfriend will be staying in Canada for 5 years from January 2020. (2 years of study in science field + 3 years with job/work visa) I believe her parents will help her pay for her own tuition + living expenses for the time being. Afterwards, she'll have to leave when the visa expires.
(We won't spend much money on anything other than our basic needs, wifi, etc. Also, we will split the rent at a decently priced apartment. If the site I visited goes by CAD, then we should each be paying around $492 CAD per month x 12 = totaling up to $5910 CAD a year.)

- I'll bring everything listed in that picture
(Side note: My spouse by then will also bring and show them her necessary/required documents as well.)
Additional Questions (Please answer if you can):
1.) Should we also say that we're not going to leave right when her 5 years are over? I saw that some people got their application rejected because "the person deciding didn't like that they want to leave after" or something.
2.) Also, for those of you who's successfully gotten the SOWP, it would be great if you can share with me what crucial stuff you had to bring as well as what else made you qualify.
3.) Does my travel history, ties, purpose of visit, personal assets, financial status and any other potential factors make me qualify? (Side note, I will let them know that I want to stay in Canada to work, gain valuable job experience, contribute to the company and live with my wife.)
4.) Are there any important things in particular I should say or not say? (Such as how long I plan to stay, if they prefer that I leave right when my spouse's visa ends, etc.)
5.) I probably won't have a job offer before I enter Canada, but I do have an Associates in Art Degree. (art + game design classes) So, will I fall under the 0, A, B category if I look for a job in that field? Also, will my past job of only having worked at a restaurant (C level) have a bad effect?
(If my list above has anything that's missing or not needed/required, please let me know. Hopefully, preparing/planning around 8 months ahead can give me a strong chance of getting the SOWP. Thank you for reading, I hope you guys can help me out in succeeding on one attempt. I really don't want to leave her alone in Canada while I have to wait in the U.S. for a while to go right back when my 6 months of stay + possible extension is over. I know the processing time can typically last anywhere between 1-4 months. I really want to make her happy and physically be there for her.)
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