Feel so bereft after sending application!

[shamsia]

Hello guys, ok so first I couldnt stop obsessing over the forms, and now that I have sent them off to my husband (sponsor), I feel like a part of me is missing :'( Anybody felt the same? Like a part of me is missing :-/ Hard to please us woman I guess ;D

 

[TracyS]

I didn't feel like a part of me was missing but I sure started obsessing about bits that I thought I'd left out or done wrong!

 

[imp]

I totally know how you feel. I just sent it to CPC Mississauga on June 21st, and it arrived the 22nd. After I sent it I was like now what do I do? Now that it's there and I'm used to the idea that I sent it I'm like oh my god I'm sure I've done something terribly wrong which of course spirals into a massive horrible story.. ahhh gotta love anxiety. In one sense it's a relief that this part is done, but in another sense I'm even more worried that it's going to take forever. At least I'm here with my husband, my heart goes out to those of you who can't be with your spouses.

Only thing we can do now is wait and hope so lets try not to worry ourselves into insanity

 

[dair2dv8103100]

Hello guys, ok so first I couldnt stop obsessing over the forms, and now that I have sent them off to my husband (sponsor), I feel like a part of me is missing :'( Anybody felt the same? Like a part of me is missing :-/ Hard to please us woman I guess ;D

This is part of the reason it took me so long to actually send it. I had a hard time parting with it. Control issue I guess...LOL as long as I had it I knew where it was ...not lost in immigration land somewhere.

I spent 16 months apart from my hubby before getting married in Jan and now another year wait.... it's like torture.

So I totally understand what you mean. It's not like you are just requesting something minor...this is our lives and our family that some complete stranger now has control over whether we will be together or not!!