Evidence of relationship, dos and don'ts?

[kourts]

I'm just looking for tips and pointers on what to send and what not to send. I'm sure others would also find this helpful as well.

For photocopies of cards and western unions should I label who they are too and from? or not label them at all?

for tickets, would it be a smart idea to highlight the dates and locations on it,as well as label it, to make it easier for them?

and for messenger convos and facebook status's does it have to be the whole entire page, or can i cut out the status and part of conversations that I want to send?

and I think I've seen some places on here that there is stuff we shouldn't send, any ideas?

 

[deepiv]

everyone has their own way to do it.
labeling and highlighting does make it easier to understand and makes it pop out,
western union reciepts just send copys, personally i just sent originals cuz i dont need them
for faceboook...i took screen shots and sent those
go ahead and send any information YOU feel will make your case stronger and shows relation developing, and ongoing communication.
lots of pictures always help, better haveing more then less
any birthday, valentine, xmas, cards....
I sent alot of phone bills...and when I sent them I HIGHLIGHTED the part that showed how long we talked for each call, and the end of the month round up of all the hours.

 

[kourts]

for the facebook posts did you send the whole entire page, or just the sections you wanted them to see?

 

[CharlieD10]

Facebook has something called "See friendship" now when you click on a person's name. It allows you to see all the posts between you and that person since the start of your relationship.

I used it to give a quick synopsis of myself and my husband's relationship on FB since we became friends. It showed the dates, and of course, other friends' comments on things we said to each other. It even showed when we changed our statuses to "engaged" and "married".

 

[kourts]

Thank you very much,that makes things a lot easier.It's easier than scrolling back through months and months of stuff.

 

[canadianwoman]

When you highlight something, don't put the highlighter right over the words. When the page is photocopied, this will black it out. You could underline it, or put a star next to it, or something.

Of course, this only matters if your case goes to appeal, where a photocopy of your complete file will be sent to the appeal board and judge.

 

[kourts]

i kinda figured that out. lol. I can print about 3 photos to a page right? then I have to label whose in them and the date and location, correct?

 

[AllisonVSC]

i kinda figured that out. lol. I can print about 3 photos to a page right? then I have to label whose in them and the date and location, correct?

Multiple photos per page is fine. Might want to include the "occasion" in the description if the photo was taken at a special event.

 

[fprince]

Phone bills
Pitures of dating, engagement, wedding, reception, honeymoon
bills and flight tickets
after marriage contact phone and emails
etc etc

Its more of the communication part which they are interested to see and not your social media updates.

 

[kourts]

along with whose in them and the date and location, right?

 

[AllisonVSC]

along with whose in them and the date and location, right?

Yes