development of relationship

[reisender]

Sponsored Spouse questionnaire #9
"Describe how your relationship developed after your first contact/meeting with your sponsor and if you and your sponsor dated or went on any outings or trips together"

This sounds much the same as the final request at the very end of the questionnaire which is also repeated in the sponsor's questionnaire.
"On a separate sheet of paper, provide any additional details of your current relationship that you believe would help to prove your relationship is genuine and continuing"

For question 9, we have written about all of our meetings and travels together up until now, including future plans.
In that case, do we need to write any more details? We feel the question 9 answer was pretty thorough.

Also, since the final request is in both questionnaires, can we just use the same essay for both?

Anyone have any suggestions?

 

[RobsLuv]

I've always considered Q#12 as an opportunity to tell your side of the story. You spend all of the Spousal Questionnaire answering their pre-formatted questions - some of which don't even seem to apply to you, you know? So Q#12 is where you personalize things. Tell them what you mean to one another and about your plans for the future, etc., . . . anything that just doesn't shine through when you answer the rest of their myriad of questions.