Advice for a stressed out sponsor.

[waitingintz]

Hi AngelB

Know the feeling and I'm sure we all share it. Some days I think it's stupid to even worry about it and others I panic about the what ifs...

The best thing to remember is that though, as you said, IOs are only human and mistakes happen, etc, etc there are also second chances if something does go wrong - before they refuse someone they'll give you the opportunity for an interview and to add more evidence if needed.

I really believe that a genuine relationship in a fairly reasonable circumstance will not be denied, even if it takes a little longer than we'd like. There are people in very difficult circumstances that makes it almost impossible to prove their relationship is genuine but you are not in that kind of situation. I think your case is probably pretty straight forward and you'll be approved sooner than you think.

Best of luck to you.

 

[AngelB]

Hi AngelB

Know the feeling and I'm sure we all share it. Some days I think it's stupid to even worry about it and others I panic about the what ifs...

The best thing to remember is that though, as you said, IOs are only human and mistakes happen, etc, etc there are also second chances if something does go wrong - before they refuse someone they'll give you the opportunity for an interview and to add more evidence if needed.

I really believe that a genuine relationship in a fairly reasonable circumstance will not be denied, even if it takes a little longer than we'd like. There are people in very difficult circumstances that makes it almost impossible to prove their relationship is genuine but you are not in that kind of situation. I think your case is probably pretty straight forward and you'll be approved sooner than you think.

Best of luck to you.

Thank you VERY much, waitingintz. It's definitely the what-ifs that get to me sometimes, even if they seem a little far out. It helps to find support among everyone else here, who keep telling me they know how I feel. I definitely don't feel alone thanks to all of you.