I'm in a similar position to the original poster. I am an American in a common-law relationship, currently here on a work permit/job that ends in April 2014.
I applied OUTLAND two weeks ago, because I read that the processing time for INLAND (at New York) was 18 months, whereas I could get a OWP in 11ish months if I applied INLAND.
But now I'm reading that the wait time for OUTLAND US apps is average 8 months? Can anyone explain how this is possibly the case? Moreover, can I cancel my application (I have not got AOR yet) and be refunded the money, have it sent back, and apply outland?