Work in Morocco

[cinderellacats]

I have just informed my fiance that I am not ready to marry him yet. He said that he understands and has welcomed my son and I to still visit, which just speaks volumes about his integrity. However I feel beyond terrible about him quitting his job with the Military so we would be free to marry me. If anyone knows of any resource or opportunity for him to secure employment in Morocco, we would both be so very grateful.
Many thanks in advance.

[thaiguy]

Why would he need to leave the military to marry you?

[fatima]

why dont you marry someone from your own country

[Gdaymate]

Hi Cinderellacats

Sorry I have no resources/information to offer you - I just wanted to say that I was happy to hear that your fiance is being understanding and to wish you well.

[cinderellacats]

Hi Thaiguy,
When in the Military they are not premitted to marry outside of the Muslim Faith.

Hi Fatima,
There is one true person for everyone in this world. However our planet is a very big place and everyone's paths cross for a reason. I have married and dated from my own country, so been there and done that already. I would rather have the right person in my life regardless of their orgin than be with someone of convienence.

Hi Gdaymate,
Thanks very much. I thought for sure he would take walk. I have never met anyone so devoted before but then again those were men from my own country (referring to Fatima's comment). I appreciate your well wishes. Merrry Christmas!

[fatima]

cindy i my self married my husband is from canada but when i got married with him i followed my heart and i trusted him and i dont regret till now .wish you the best good luck

[fatima]

hi yasmina i also like your name but im happilly married but cindy ask a lot and if you love someone you should trust him .i hope you did read cindy s previouse posts about moroccan mans well moroccan mans there is trhe good and there is the bad i guess every were .good luck

[cinderellacats]

Hi everyone,
Thanks very much for the responses. He actually only had to give 30 days notice because his contract was due for renewal. I asked so many questions because I had little or no knowledge of the Muslim faith and heard stories about on-line romance and people that are out there looking for marriage as a means to leave their country.
I give him credit for he has not lied about anything to me. When I first asked him why does he not marry a Mococcan woman, he said that 80% of the women there look first for money before love. Then after I told him that I wanted to postpone the marriage, we then discussed the economy of Morocco and the unemployment rate there being so high. Thus being the reason that many look for marriages abroad as a means not only to leave their beautiful country but also to start a better life for themselves. Some return with their families but most make their host country their new home.
Fortunately for me he is not a strict Muslim, so our lifestyles will not be in complete conflict (I am Christian). He is very possesive though and admits that he is also very jealous. My flirting and prowling days are far behind me. I am more than content to stay home and be with those who love me. He has solid morals which is perfect for me, as I am so done with players.
4 days left before we leave for Morocco. It's amazing how quickly our lives can change when our pats cross with someone elses. I am really looking forward in seeing how we do in person. I am so glad that I did put off the marriage and that he came to terms with it and respected my decision. Now I don't feel so much panic anymore.
Wishing everyone all the ebst of the holiday season!!!