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« on: November 20, 2011, 10:16:19 pm » |
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C mon guys share your Life experience here.........how can we make it better  Who starts the Fight Husband or Wife |
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« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2011, 12:29:01 am » |
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happy wife happy life!!
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No pain No gain...No sweat,,No success... No Faith,,No hope..No patience,,dont giv up or u will get no PR
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« Reply #2 on: November 21, 2011, 12:51:37 am » |
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happy wife happy life!!
Sad Husband sad life!! |
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« Reply #3 on: November 21, 2011, 01:09:16 am » |
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happy wife happy life!!
AMEN!!.... LOL Any guy I work with will tell you there are no truer words...  |
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« Reply #4 on: November 21, 2011, 01:14:57 am » |
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Start talking and don't stop. Communication is the key. That and date night once a week.
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« Reply #5 on: November 21, 2011, 01:15:33 am » |
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Talk to each other about everything. Be kind even when you're mad or frustrated. Do things your SO thinks are important even if you don't think they are. Don't blame or accuse one another; tell them how YOU feel about the situation. Learn new things/experience new things together. Be intimate. Try to figure out what your SO needs most and tell them what you need most in the relationship and work towards it  |
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« Reply #6 on: November 21, 2011, 01:27:22 am » |
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Husband and wife fight because you are totally two different persons put together as one by the sanctity of "MARRIAGE". What makes you fight is by not understanding each other or by not accepting each other and that makes the couple becomes unhappy. There is really no good recipe to have a free fight husband and wife relationship because admit it or not fighting is a healthy sign of relationship, it makes you know each other more and discover the inner part of your partner including the strengths and weaknesses you both possess. What makes fighting irritating is if you don't handle it positively meaning if you don't learn from it and if you do it over and over again. Committing the same mistakes in your relationship will make you both tired and will make your marriage unhealthy. How to make it better? Always remember that your relationship is not an "obligation but a choice". You choose to be with your partner because you know that she/he can make you happy that's why partners should put "effort" to make the choice worthy. And effort only involves one thing that is "acceptance" of whoever or whatever your wife or husband is because if you have acceptance you will both understand each other and with understanding you can fix whatever your differences and you will both grow as a person and as a couple.
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« Reply #7 on: November 21, 2011, 01:50:20 am » |
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It all depends on husband how to make his wife Happy bz he is the house hold, he is the Boss .............so basicly fight main reasons r Husbands  |
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« Reply #8 on: November 21, 2011, 02:15:07 am » |
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Husband and wife fight because you are totally two different persons put together as one by the sanctity of "MARRIAGE". What makes you fight is by not understanding each other or by not accepting each other and that makes the couple becomes unhappy. There is really no good recipe to have a free fight husband and wife relationship because admit it or not fighting is a healthy sign of relationship, it makes you know each other more and discover the inner part of your partner including the strengths and weaknesses you both possess. What makes fighting irritating is if you don't handle it positively meaning if you don't learn from it and if you do it over and over again. Committing the same mistakes in your relationship will make you both tired and will make your marriage unhealthy. How to make it better? Always remember that your relationship is not an "obligation but a choice". You choose to be with your partner because you know that she/he can make you happy that's why partners should put "effort" to make the choice worthy. And effort only involves one thing that is "acceptance" of whoever or whatever your wife or husband is because if you have acceptance you will both understand each other and with understanding you can fix whatever your differences and you will both grow as a person and as a couple.
so true i do agree wht u too. |
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« Reply #9 on: November 21, 2011, 02:29:39 am » |
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It seems lyk nobody fights in this forum very nice  ,so plz share with our brothers an sis who having problems thxs. |
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« Reply #10 on: November 21, 2011, 02:58:30 am » |
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It seems that you're having a problem right now, but what i can say is for sure is nobody here is not fighting with their partner and it's 100 percent sure, and it's also 100 percent sure that nobody wants to fight with their partners. So my friend just chill I don't know if what is your culture because as what I read a while ago that you described husband as the " Boss" and from that word I figured out that you already defined what is your relationship with your partner. You've got a definition for a husband as a boss, decision maker, provider which I believe the should not be the exact definition of a husband in my own point of view. I'm a woman by the way, but for me our husband is a PARTNER and the descriptions that you've got from them can be part of their obligations in raising a family but it does not mean that you are not equal to him. If you belong to a culture wherein that the husband should be the superior then I will understand but in the modern world of being a woman i do believe that husband and wife are equal. You can both decide and you can both raise your family, husband is not an ATM machine nor wife is not a baby sitter or house keeper. You should both have a say in your relationship to make you both responsible for it.
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« Reply #11 on: November 21, 2011, 03:07:15 am » |
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Lol me not having problems otherwise me instead of being here i must be crying  ...........but i have seen so many cases in this forum that husbands dont give their wifes time an because of that it end up too divorce ...............so thats not good is better to share experience an it will safe their life an will live happily. |
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« Reply #12 on: November 21, 2011, 03:28:32 am » |
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oooopppppsssss sorry but anyway true it can be very tough especially from those apart from their partners . Distance sucks and fighting can suck more  |
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« Reply #13 on: November 21, 2011, 03:37:21 am » |
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oooopppppsssss sorry but anyway true it can be very tough especially from those apart from their partners . Distance sucks and fighting can suck more Yup this long distance relationship,tym difference many things for sure not only husbands starts fight but wifes too but they both are one Heart which beats at the same tym  |
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« Reply #14 on: November 21, 2011, 10:50:00 am » |
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Start talking and don't stop. Communication is the key. That and date night once a week.
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