I decided to move my response post to here (separate thread), in the hope it may cheer you up.
This is true story. The clue and key word it was that we honest, upfront, bold and blunt about everything we planned>
Here we go:
Why are you so scared? why do you have this negative attitude? why gloomy and why wanting to make it harder for yourself and others?
My wife was herself spnosored by her ex. He went to her country only a tourist (2 weeks). They met there for their first time ever. They got married there and he sponsored her (with our daugher who was 8 years old at then time). When they arrived here in Edmonton, they only managed to live with him for 6 months. According to her (as I never met him..or wanted to) he was aggressive and mean. They started the divorce process after 12 months exactly from her landing. When she moved out, she could successfully secure her life and become independent from him (no social assistance needed). We started our relationship online (we never met in person at that time), at the very end of her divorce procedure. I was in USA and was overstaying there. After a few months the divorce was granted. what could we do.? she could not afford coming to me in USA and I could NOT easily go to her. We loved each other.We still love one another of course. That is soooooo true and genuine. I made my plan to come to Canada and make a refugee claim, knowing that I could go to detention, I could have been thrown back to US, I could be deported. I took the risk and also I knew in advance that refugee claim would be rejected eventually and I would be deported. I married her immediately. We have our little son right now. We applied inland after few months of my arrival and marriage. I got approved for my PR 3 weeks ago. I am working in the Oil Industry here, HENCE my user name.
Do not ger scared ladies and gentlemen. take life easy
What is your point? what are you trying to say or advise us to do?
The law is the law. The law can be unfair, imperfect or totally wrong, but it is still there. Are you telling us to follow the law or to follow your way?