Thanks so much for your answer. That makes a lot of sense.
For inland vs outland: yeah, after having read a whole lot more on the process it does indeed make much more sense to apply outland, and we'll probably do that. From what I gather, the only potential downside is that I might have to go to Berlin for an interview -- and that's not that big a deal after all.
Harald.
u welcome

if u prepare well the application (and this forum is a good place to start but also ur own reading of the guides and operational manuals) and if u answered any possible question u think they might have abt ur relationship, an interview could be very well avoided....Berlin looks reasonable office, just try to follow people who went through that office and u'll know if the trend is to have an interview or not

not only that inland would b much muuuuuch slower but also once u apply inland, u cannot leave Canada until the process is over, that could mean for almost 2 years; not even for family emergency or anything; it looks a big issue and if they find u r/were outside they just close ur file; each situation is different, so think well the route u want to take and study the inland threads too (i'm sure people with similar circumstances like yours could give reason why they chose the inland route)
good luck!