The skilled worker program is now under 3 categories, people who have a profession that is on a list of 38 most wanted, people who have a job offer (AEO) or people who are already working in Canada. Best way for you to immigrate is try to get a job offer. Go visit your wife and kid and look for jobs at the same time. If you can find an employer who will apply for your LMO for temporary work permit or AEO for immigration, you are half way in. If you come in on a temporary work permit, you can apply for your immigration later.
More info on LMO's and AEO's at
http://www.hrsdc.gc.ca/eng/workplaceskills/foreign_workers/supperimm.shtml