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[jamiloveskitty]

 @  jamiloveskitty
hello nakakarelate ako sa sitwasyon mo ganyan din kami ng hubby ko kami naman kinasal nung May lang few months ago ang pagkakaiba lang natin ikaw napasa nyo na application nyo ako pinaprocces na lahat ni hubby sa kin nung May pa nag umpisa pati passport nakakuha na sa kin na rin  mga application ko nasa kanya na lahat pero until now October na di pa rin pa rin nya pinapasa kasi palagi kaming nag aaway at yung papel ang panakot nya sa kin palagi at di nya pinapasa. Ang tagal ko na ngang nagbabasa dito since last year pa. Tapos ang masama pa nun lagi akong naiinggit sa marami dito na they just got married tapos pinaayos at pinapasa na nila agad ang papers nila inisip ko palagi mahal ba ako ng hubby ko bakit ganun?
lagi naman nyang sinasabi na mahal nya ko at sobrang namimiss pero iniisip ko habang paulit ulit nyang sinasabi yun kung mahal nya ko at miss bakit di nya pinapasa ang papel namin yung una ko ngang application na pinasa sa kanya sinunog nya sa harapan ko bale 2nd na yung pinasa ko sa kanya kaya nag iisip ako lagi kung mahal ba ako ng hubby ko kasi nahihirapan na talaga ako gusto ko na ngang mag give up para lang matapos na ang lahat ng sakit na nararamdaman ko ang sakit sakit na palagi nya ko hinihiwalayan tapos magsesend ng email sasabihin "isesend ko na sana ang application natin kaya lang may importante pa akong tanong " tapos pag kinausap ko na sasabihin "ay late na bukas ko nalang itatanong yung tanong ko saka para mapasa ko na rin bukas" ilang buwan na ang nagdaan ganun at ganun pa rin. Pasensya na kasi madrama na ako sobrang sama lang talaga ng loob ko kanina kasi nag usap ulit kami hiniwalayan na naman ako hirap mahal ko ang hubby ko sobra tingin nyo ba mag stay ako or move on nalang?

if he loves you, dapat hindi ka niya pinapa-iyak. sobra naman ginagawa niya pero come to think of it, it might be show lang niya kunwari di pa naipasa yung papers pero parang sukdulan naman yung drama niya. tama suggestion ni sis kmaep, for the meantime kung ganito yung situation, pag-usapan niyo ng maayos if what's what. go look for a job or if ur working now, work ka na lang sis, kasi kung ano man mangyari sa inyo, if he stops supporting you, hindi ka naman kawawa you have your own money di ba?

Alam ko mahal mo hubby mo & you want to be with him the soonest possible time, siyempre kung minsan di naman talaga natin matitiis yung mga mahal natin but you have to voice out your rights. meditate kung ano dapat mong sabihin the next time you speak with him para at least maliwanagan din siya. dapat kasi i-work out yung mga issues but being married doesn't mean you gave your partner the right to control you 100%, dapat give & take. Don't give up yet kasi mag-asawa na kayo. ask God to help you and your husband for healing & reconciliation.
God bless you!

[0jenifer0]

 @  ojenifero

hi!! i think better confront your husband about your situation?? if ano ba talaga balak nya sa application nyo?? kasi syempre if for example i were the husband soon as possible apply ko na agad..

pero baka naman na i drop na nya yung application nyo kunwari lang na hindi pa??

stay and be patient after all asawa mo na sya.. if ever di pa nya nai process gawin mo lang ang dati mong ginagawa.. if you have work, work nalang muna ng work..

God bless

@ KMAEP
di pa nya dinadrop sa CIC-M nasa kanya pa rin. Yun na nga ang palagi kong pinagdarasal na bigyan ako ni GOD ng maraming pasensya catholic kasi ako for now nag aaral ulit ako kaya lang minsan nasasaktan ako sa mga sinasabi ng mga tao sa school di naman nila alam kung gaano ako nasasaktan para mag comment sila na di mag wowork out ang sitwasyon ko kasi daw malayo kami ng hubby ko di nalang ako nagsasalita 

[0jenifer0]

Nakakaloka sitwasyon mo. grabe speechless ako. i know mahirap tlga kung mahal mo. pero u have to think over and over again or much more talk to him. kasi sa tingin ko kung mahal ka tlga ng isang tao u would want to be with him asap no matter what. umuuwi ba sya ng pinas to at least visit u?

OO umuwi ang hubby ko twice palang last saka this year nung kinasal kami 

[minimighty]

 @  Jennifer

May sinend ako na message sayo. Check mo inbox mo.

[jamiloveskitty]

 @  KMAEP
di pa nya dinadrop sa CIC-M nasa kanya pa rin. Yun na nga ang palagi kong pinagdarasal na bigyan ako ni GOD ng maraming pasensya catholic kasi ako for now nag aaral ulit ako kaya lang minsan nasasaktan ako sa mga sinasabi ng mga tao sa school di naman nila alam kung gaano ako nasasaktan para mag comment sila na di mag wowork out ang sitwasyon ko kasi daw malayo kami ng hubby ko di nalang ako nagsasalita 

alam ko sis mahirap iwasan ang mga tao ganyan. nasasabi nila yan kasi they're not in our situation na malayo yung asawa/bf/gf nila.

don't give up on your faith, also pray for your hubby, that God will touch his heart and remove all frustrations and anger sa inyong dalawa, & help control your emotions para ma work ninyo ang mga dapat ayusin.  

[hawks]

OO umuwi ang hubby ko twice palang last saka this year nung kinasal kami 

I wonder why ganun ang attitude nya. But i still believe love ka nya. kasi he married u. He chose u to be his wife kung di ka na niya mahal for sure nag file na ng divorce un. Keep on praying and show and give the love u can give him.

[minimighty]

tama po si Hawks

[0jenifer0]

I wonder why ganun ang attitude nya. But i still believe love ka nya. kasi he married u. He chose u to be his wife kung di ka na niya mahal for sure nag file na ng divorce un. Keep on praying and show and give the love u can give him.

Salamat , kasi napapalakas nyo ang loob ko ganun nga ang ginagawa ko mahal ko ang hubby ko alam ko one day marerealize din nya lahat ng ginagawa nya sa kin dahil nandito pa rin ako sa kanya at palagi akong nagdadasal naiinggit lang talaga ako dito sa forum last year pa kasi ako dito nagbabasa kaya di ako nawawalan ng pag asa

[Boracay]

When you applied to manila what did you do?

Philippines

PHOTOS
Supply nine (9) recent photos for each member of your family and yourself (accompanying and
non-accompanying). Photos submitted must be properly labeled at the back with the applicant's
name, date of birth and signature. Follow the instructions in Appendix B: Photo Specifications

1. I've read and did a search about signing photos and it's a bit confusing. Above Photos, not specifically 1 photo, must be signed etc. However in my search I read twice about people signing all the photos and then having them returned and asked to retake the photos and just sign 1.
I'm not sure if different countries have different rules?

2. In some application forms it says "Space reserved for applicants photo." Is this part of the 9 photos requested or do we need 9 + these ones?

Thanks!

[ischie]

hi,

ask ko lng po, nakareceive ng PPR ang husband ko, and may kasamang appendix B, photograph specification. Kailngan din po bang mgsubmit ng photograph ulit? although dun sa list ng mga docs required hindi naman po sinabi na magsubmit ulit ng photo. Thanks po.

[MaRiPoSa18]

 @ KMAEP   thanks po sis...sana makapiling na namin ang mga asawa namin soon.. tyaga ng konti pa..

[MaRiPoSa18]

  @ 0jenifer0

hi sis...wala kami sa position to tell you what to do, coz inde namin tlaga alam ang situation nyo ni hubby mo..based sa mga kwento mo, parang inde ata tama na itreat ka nya ng gnyan...hmm dapat talaga pagusapan nyo ng mabuti yang situation nyo...dahil inde biro yan kapag magkasama na kayo.. sis..try mo alamin kung ano yung pinagsisimulan ng away nyo...

ang inde ko lng magets e kung ano yung gusto nyang itanong sayo na inde nya masabi..inde ko sure kung nagbibiro lng sya sa lagay ng yan..pero for me kasi masakit ung ginagawa nya..especially thats not the first time na gnawa nya yun right...hang in there sis...pray ka lang and be strong...kung positive or negative man ang kalalabasan ng lahat...maging handa ka lang and maging matatag..

[MaRiPoSa18]

 @ ischie

yung appendix B photo specification , i guess nagtipid lng ang CEM dun lng ni print ung appendix A...so we just ignored it ..appendix A lng sundin mo..well unless inde mo nisubmit sa una palang ung photos..

[ischie]

 @  ischie

yung appendix B photo specification , i guess nagtipid lng ang CEM dun lng ni print ung appendix A...so we just ignored it ..appendix A lng sundin mo..well unless inde mo nisubmit sa una palang ung photos..

Thanks for the reply.

[raniloc]

When you applied to manila what did you do?

Philippines

PHOTOS
Supply nine (9) recent photos for each member of your family and yourself (accompanying and
non-accompanying). Photos submitted must be properly labeled at the back with the applicant's
name, date of birth and signature. Follow the instructions in Appendix B: Photo Specifications

1. I've read and did a search about signing photos and it's a bit confusing. Above Photos, not specifically 1 photo, must be signed etc. However in my search I read twice about people signing all the photos and then having them returned and asked to retake the photos and just sign 1.
I'm not sure if different countries have different rules?

2. In some application forms it says "Space reserved for applicants photo." Is this part of the 9 photos requested or do we need 9 + these ones?

Thanks!

You only need to fill-up 1 in each set.


Under IMM3999 page 15.  http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/pdf/kits/guides/3900E.pdf

On the back of one photo (and only one) in each set, write the name and date of birth
of the person appearing in the photo as well as the date the photo was taken.
· Enclose each set of photos in separate envelopes. Write the family member's name,
date of birth and relationship to you on the corresponding envelope and close the
envelope with a paper clip.
· Photos must not be stapled, scratched, bent or bear any ink marks.