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« Reply #1110 on: April 28, 2008, 07:57:04 am » |
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Boras doesn't have a second interview, they just asked him to come there on Wednesday. They just said to come there, he asked if it's for the visa and the woman on the phone said no.
So, that's all. Sick of immigration and their games.
Raven
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« Reply #1111 on: April 28, 2008, 08:14:37 am » |
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I am sorry guys I do not have good news to report.
My husband did the interview. He had a short interview with the Moroccan woman, then followed by the canadian woman. He said everything was going fine and the mood was fine and then everything changed, the canadian woman got all strange and then asked my husband why I paid for the apartment rental when I was there in January. My husband pointed out our great wage disparity and said that he payed as much as he could for everything else. Our apartment rental was $1800. - the reason was that I wanted a washer/dryer/bathtub, I wanted to be in a really good neighbourhood. These were my choices, but clearly my choices are being held against him. All the other questions were as posted here in the past.
They kept all the paperwork that he brought with him. They would not give him a response at this time. They said that they will call him in the next week to let him know their decision.
I hate this stuff. I have known my husband for 2.5 years. This is not some flash in the pan romance. If our relationship was not real, why would we be in it for 2.5 years? That does not make sense.
So here I am in tears, not sure I can face the alternatives if we are denied.
I am sick about the fact they did not give him our papers back. I am sick that they do not believe our relationship is valid because I paid for an apartment when I was there in January. This is absolutely heart-breaking. If I was a man and my husband was a woman and the man paid for the apartment, this wouldn't even be questioned. I am sick that they can not see that our relationship is bonafide. What did we do wrong? What did the people who had their answers at the end of the interview do right?
Sadly and in tears at 5am in the morning
Becca
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« Reply #1112 on: April 28, 2008, 08:33:07 am » |
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Becca,
I am so sorry to hear that. I have to tell you though. On the other forum that I watch, they seem to be doing the same to alot of people. There were 2 interviews last week, and they did the same thing to them. And they did the same to many others in the recent past. I don't see many people getting an instant decision.
I wonder if they are starting to take a longer time to make their decisions.
I don't know what's going on in Rabat these days.
I know it's not easy, and easier said than done, but try not to worry.
The more I see, this not giving an answer right away is becoming more common.
I wish they would stop doing this to everyone. There are hearts and lives at the end of those files.
Good luck and God bless
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« Reply #1113 on: April 28, 2008, 08:36:06 am » |
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I'm sorry also Raven
I saw where Boras posted on the other forum asking if anyone else had a second interview.
I truly wish you both the best.
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« Reply #1114 on: April 28, 2008, 09:59:17 am » |
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Hello Again Becca,
I wanted to let you know that the Husband of another woman on another site had his interview today also. The Canadian Agent also gave him a very difficult time. She said she would call him with a decision also.
She questioned why his Wife's Duughter's did not carry their Father's names. You wonder what that has to do with their relationship being genuine?
There seems to be something strange going on.
I think maybe they are just testing the reaction of the Husband's
I hope to hear good news from you soon.
God bless
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« Reply #1115 on: April 28, 2008, 03:08:46 pm » |
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Maaaaaaaaan this suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks....(think 3 year old whining and stomping feet and that's me)
What's the hold up!? Why make us suffer needlessly!? I mean come ON!! This is ridiculous! Why drag on this last step for months?
Sorry for whining in the forum but it's about all I'm good for at this point. That and mopping(spelling??) around the office like a sad puppy dog. Yeah I'm pitiful.....but this SUCKS HUGE!
Just keeps going and going and no end in sight. I know when the end isn't that's about it, it's not this week. Not with a stat tomorrow. :( :( :( :( :( And we thought we were sooo close to being together when he had his interview....
Raven and I should get together for a pouting session. lol
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« Reply #1116 on: April 28, 2008, 04:00:23 pm » |
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Oh Cindy, totally agree with you....a pouting session, can that include copious amounts of vodka?
I don't understand, if there was some sort of logic then I can follow that, I can wait if you tell me something is going to take X amount of time, fine. But when they say, wait for a call for a visa then 2 months pass and nothing...what the???
Arg, I feel terrible for Becca that is dumbest thing I have ever heard. Who cares who paid for the apartment you rented to spend alone time with your HUSBAND!! Give me a break, of course there is a wage disparity, you're in Canada, he's in Morocco....doh! What rock do you have to be living under not to know that?
And what does it matter to them? you're married you can spend your money any way you choose as a couple, it has nothing to do with whether your marriage is legit or not. In fact it should show that you're committed to each other and will to do whatever it takes to be able to spend some quality time together since we're all apart for long stretched of time.
Double arg!!!
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« Reply #1117 on: April 28, 2008, 04:40:30 pm » |
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I am sorry guys I do not have good news to report.
My husband did the interview. He had a short interview with the Moroccan woman, then followed by the canadian woman. He said everything was going fine and the mood was fine and then everything changed, the canadian woman got all strange and then asked my husband why I paid for the apartment rental when I was there in January. My husband pointed out our great wage disparity and said that he payed as much as he could for everything else. Our apartment rental was $1800. - the reason was that I wanted a washer/dryer/bathtub, I wanted to be in a really good neighbourhood. These were my choices, but clearly my choices are being held against him. All the other questions were as posted here in the past.
They kept all the paperwork that he brought with him. They would not give him a response at this time. They said that they will call him in the next week to let him know their decision.
I hate this stuff. I have known my husband for 2.5 years. This is not some flash in the pan romance. If our relationship was not real, why would we be in it for 2.5 years? That does not make sense.
So here I am in tears, not sure I can face the alternatives if we are denied.
I am sick about the fact they did not give him our papers back. I am sick that they do not believe our relationship is valid because I paid for an apartment when I was there in January. This is absolutely heart-breaking. If I was a man and my husband was a woman and the man paid for the apartment, this wouldn't even be questioned. I am sick that they can not see that our relationship is bonafide. What did we do wrong? What did the people who had their answers at the end of the interview do right?
Sadly and in tears at 5am in the morning
Becca
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« Reply #1118 on: April 28, 2008, 04:46:14 pm » |
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Waiting too,
Good luck tomorrow. I'm sure everything will go well.
God bless
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« Reply #1119 on: April 28, 2008, 04:57:39 pm » |
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Ohhhhhhh Becca, I'm so sorry to hear that. If it's any consolation, they kept our papers too. We were told he is accepted...not sure if it's much of a consolation since we're still waiting for the official acceptance. But **hugs** it's all I gots.
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« Reply #1120 on: April 28, 2008, 06:41:09 pm » |
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh I wish I could give you all a Hug.... I pray this will change....soon!!!!!!!!!
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« Reply #1121 on: April 29, 2008, 12:13:33 pm » |
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Waiting too,
Good luck tomorrow. I'm sure everything will go well.
God bless
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« Reply #1122 on: April 29, 2008, 12:26:08 pm » |
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Waiting Too
A biggggggggggggggggggggg Congratulatons.
I am so Happy for you.
I hope you get your Visa very soon.
Welcome to CANADA
God bless
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« Reply #1123 on: April 29, 2008, 12:38:21 pm » |
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Congratulations Waitingtoo
I guess if you are a woman, you pass the interview and they tell you immediately.
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« Reply #1124 on: April 29, 2008, 03:21:02 pm » |
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Sorry it has been awhile since I have posted anything but nothing new to tell on my end still waiting. Congrates to all that have finally gotten their interviews and to those that have recieved their visas. I am truely happy for you all. And I agree that all this waiting is getting bad and they just don't seem to care that they have someones lives in their hands when they are looking at our files we are all just numbers to them. I can't believe what they are doing to some of the men in the interviews that is just crazy. I just wish I could afford to go back and see my husband for a visit I miss him so much, this internet marriage just is not doing the trick when you want nothing more than to hold the one you love. Good luck to all and my prayers are with you all. Take care hope to hear more good news soon.
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