I know this is an old thread.
But I am in the same boat as the original poster.
I went to visit my parents home land. Met someone back their, and got into a serious relationship. Now I have no problems financially sponsoring her, the only problem is, we are not married. I cannot live back their because I have a job and house over here.
Does me holding a job here, warrant me applying as a conjugal relationship. From what I read I cannot do this...
Is marrying her my only option?
Basically, the conjugal partner category works like this: a couple qualifies as common-law partners when they can demonstrate that they have lived together, in a marriage-like relationship, for at least a continuous year. Conjugal partner qualification is about qualifying as common-law partners
without having lived together for at least a year because of fear of persecution due to the relationship, or an immigration barrier that prevents the couple from living together in either country for long enough to establish a common-law relationship. There must also be an impediment to marriage, in other words, a couple can't just decide they'd rather not marry - when they could legally do that - in favour of being common-law partners when they can't meet that definition . . . and then expect to qualify as conjugal partners instead. The conjugal partner class is there to make exceptions, when warranted, to the common-law qualification - in order not to discriminate against genuine couples who cannot "legally" find a way to be together. So, no, I'd say you wouldn't qualify as conjugal partners - simply
choosing not to marry is not the required "impediment" to marriage.
See Section 5.45 - 5.49 of the OP2 Processing Manual