separation after receiving medical request from cic

[jise]

Dear friends,

Please intimate me what i need to do since my wife is staying separated from me and our son and we have got the medical request from CIC.She is refusing to do the medical and we donot have come into any legal terms of divorce .Me nad my son have done the medical .Now What I need to inform the CIC about her status.If she still refuses to do the medical, what proceedures has to be taken inorder to obtain PR for me and my son.Please advice.

[fernendez]

all you need to do is inform chc that you wish to remove her from your application due to divorce related reasons. think well before you do this as you might not be able to add her again if she changes her mind.Has the DMP sent your medicals and your sons?

[swapnochary]

Firstly try to convince her for medical, if she refused then tell her that later you cant accompany her to CANADA  and send your and ur sons medical. then you and your son will get PPR and then VISA accordingly.
also you can inform this to your visa office.

Dear friends,

Please intimate me what i need to do since my wife is staying separated from me and our son and we have got the medical request from CIC.She is refusing to do the medical and we donot have come into any legal terms of divorce .Me nad my son have done the medical .Now What I need to inform the CIC about her status.If she still refuses to do the medical, what proceedures has to be taken inorder to obtain PR for me and my son.Please advice.

[jise]

yes.DMP has already sent our( mine and sons) medical reports.I tried my level best and still trying again to do her medical but in vain.

[sunshy]

Just tell her that for her son's future she should do it.

[fernendez]

Why does she want a divorce? I might sound silly but don't crucify me. It shows this woman does not really love you or your son. Even if she wants a divorce, the reasonable thing is to do it for her son's future . From all indications, there might be one guy with sugar coated mouth deceiving her. Guy, tell her your verdict if she insists she is not doing the medicals that she can do her whatever she likes. Remember your son's future and your hapiness matters most as this woman does not really care about you guys!!

[jise]

she is not listening nor her father  gives a chance to talk to her.They haven't even enquired about me or our son for long.What should I write to CIC.Our medicals were sent 2 months before.Any senior members, please advice.

[fernendez]

please try and have one more conversation with her as you might not be able to undo the deed when done.

[fernendez]

You do not need to worry, go ahead with your application. I don't know when you intend to marry her but she can be added at a later stage.

[swapnochary]

Dont worry abt her, you did ur best, now go ahead and hopefully u will get visa for you and ur son, try to start a new life...

she is not listening nor her father  gives a chance to talk to her.They haven't even enquired about me or our son for long.What should I write to CIC.Our medicals were sent 2 months before.Any senior members, please advice.

[Temasek]

I may be wrong but I believe you should only be concern if you are depending on your spouse for points under the “Adaptability” category to attain 67 points.

[fernendez]

Write to CIC to withdraw her application on irreconcilable grounds and prepare for life without her. The fact that she is your wife does not mean she wants the best for you!!

[jise]

Dear Fernandez and forum members,

I have written to CIC that due to certain unforeseen reasons i cannot get done my wifes medical reports in the permitted time allowed. I request cic to grand me 3 more months time to get her medicals done or else update you with my family status.Now its 2 months already passed.I applied my self without any agents or lawyers and such a situation I never expected in my dreams.If any one can guide me good please advice.

thanks

[fernendez]

Don't worry you can achieve a lot within this last month. Can you get a divorce if not CIC will not continue to process except you write to them confirm she is no longer interested in emigrating to Canada!!!! Wait for other peoples advice as well.