Hi again,
I finally called and asked the CBSA because I didn't see anyone on here with the same experience. They told me that if I am married, household goods are common property thus I can claim them as mine.
Then I asked "what if they demand a receipt to prove I've owned something for more than 6 months (requirement for returning Canadian) and the receipt is in my husband's name, not mine (e.g. our computer), and anyway we've been married for only 3 months, will I have any problems?" He said "oh! uh... I don't know, I guess it would be ok. I wouldn't worry about it."
So I won't

(because I'm so good at following instructions!)
So if any of you returning Canadians are in the same boat, you can quote this directly from the mouth of the New Brunswick CBSA horse.
OK, back to packing!
Cheers,
TLH
PS One HUGE word of advice based on my experience: Don't move in the winter! The chances are the shipment will freeze which can damage electronics with LCD screens and anything liquid. Although technically you shouldn't have liquids in there, it's amazing all the sneaky places they end up: bike lube, printer ink cartridges, craft supplies like paints and glue... ugh! Even my snow globe collection!!! We are carrying all this stuff in our airplane checked luggage, the allowances of which, if you don't know already, the major airlines are in the process of CUTTING IN HALF as we speak!!! So consider yourself warned...