Thank you every one for replying, and Thank you Waz, your answer was the most professional answer so far..
Yes I am actually from Iraq which things going deadly there, IRB doesn't generalize situations upon cases, they treat each case individually, and mine was pretty strong or at least that was my lawyer opinion, as I was kidnapped, tortured and paid off a ransom of $50 k, and I was threatened to leave the country in 1 weak or end up killed, So I did, I fled to our neighbor country "Syria" where I found it hard to keep up without getting my education license, so I went secretly back for 2 months, to get my papers done, I didnt go to my house, I went my wife's aunt house and I only left the house once to receive and sign up my documents, then left Iraq again, and since then I never went back and that was 2005.
The IRB Judge felt to argue that short return, and decided that my life is not in danger and I should not be given any protection or status, but attached with the court order another document stating that I shall not leave the country unless voluntarily.... due the dangerous security situation in Iraq!!!!, and my removal order is suspended until further notice or an order from the court.
7 years I have been away from home, family, friends, I lost everything, last time I saw my son he was only crawling now hes grown to be in pre-school in Egypt, thats where my wife and I settled for couple years before I decided to take the chance and come to Canada.
Your answer and so is CIC, literally means it is only my decision to bet on My Wife & Son VS Canada!!!
and I wanted Canada for better life, freedom, security and basic human rights for my Son mainly, and of course my wife and I deserve to have a home too, we both educated and successful where ever we go, but we never know when some day will come, and will be kicked out to somewhere else and start over again .. sigh