I guess we'll get married or wait a few months to get the full year for common law. All the bills and the lease are under my name. I guess I could change that.
It is a lot easier to prove you lived together for one year if you have a lease in both names and the utility bills in both names. Get a joint bank account too.
Does letters from family and the landlord and friends help to build the case, messages exchanged and all that if we don't have bills really.
Yes, you can get an affidavit from the landlord stating that he/she knows you two have been living together as a couple for one year. Similar letters or affidavits from family and friends also help.
Also is there a way to get our status as common law spouses recognized by a court before applying (a friend of mine did that in Ukraine but I wondered for Canada if we do have that option ).
Even with this you would have to prove you have lived together for one year.