Thank you for the reassurance! We do have a savings account in which we are putting every spare penny we have for our resettlement needs.
Do you happen to know when the best time is to send medical records and FBI/State certificates? When I had a phone consult with an assistant to David Cohen, he said those don't need to be sent until later. Unfortunately, we can't afford the help of a lawyer, so I keep reading threads but the results are confusing.. I don't want to risk the certificates to expire mid-processing, but I don't want our processing delayed because we didn't send the certificates yet. My minds is a giant ball of anxiety lately with worrying about doing things the wrong way.
Since this is a spousal sponsorship, the medical records and FBI/State certificates are submitted WITH the application. It is incomplete without them. When you go to the DMP, he/she will give you a copy of the medical form that goes along with your application.
The FBI/State certificates can be no more than 3 months old when your application is submitted. Once the application is submitted, they are valid for a year after the date they were issued. The timeline for Buffalo is 11 months from start to finish, and most cases are finalised well before that, so it is unlikely you will need to re-do them. If you don't have a record anywhere, it is possible you only need to do the FBI check. If Buffalo decides they need the State certificates, they will ask for them.