update: sure!.
i was going to update this thread in a couple of days when im DONE.
but why not..
anyway i finally did manage to get my "boss" to sign the letter for immigration..
took some persuading. but hey

(no threats or Christmas party blackmail required.)
sent that out with my passport. and i recieved it back with a positive reply.
so now im trying to sort out what to do..
the "un expected news" is that the letter gives me two options
1# do the port of entry border crossing
2# do it IN CANADA, at a local immigration office..
so im trying to sort out if it is easier for me to drive to the us border,
or to the "local" office..
its not really a question as the "local" office has about 2 months waiting list for this.
so a long drive it is..
or i may just fly back home and have some Guinness with the boys

so it looks like it is working out so far...
passport with fancy sticker in hand.. just one more step...
after this much waiting i cant wait to be done with it.. and take that new job..
Sigh*
/Harry