thanks so much for replying.
i definitely do not want to lie..the second ques is where i'm more confused- dont know if technically we were refused the visa or just our application was rejected....i think it should be the latter case, as we never got to go thru the entire visa process itself.
you are right. your visa was not rejected. your application was only returned because your NOC was not in the magic list. however, this time, you should submit a good explanation if you plan to change your NOC and duties.