My fiancee and I have kind of the same situation. He is sponsoring me after we get married on 16th of January 2009. The wedding is in Canada and i will stay in Canada after the wedding. we will start the visa process while im in Canada. My quiestion to you is, is it possible to do that?. how will i get the visa to my passport after the process is done?.How has youre process been going, good?
I don't think it will be a problem. Every time I call CIC with questions and explain my situation, they've said it's okay. I believe when the process is done, you'll have to send your passport to the processing office, whichever country it's in. I'm not sure if they'll send it back to Canada. You might have to have it sent to your family in your country of residence and then have them mail it to you back in Canada, so that you can land.
Our process is going okay, I suppose. We've just had a lot of questions with the forms, but we haven't mailed it in yet. We should be done in a week or so.
Good luck!